dude, and i don’t say that often, do not worry about the girls that pass you over for the jerks. i promise that you will eventually come into your own, and the great girls, the better girls. will be coming after you. i started out like you are. now, ober the past 8 years, i have dated some of the hottest girls, not to mention 3 that had their own business. my last girlfriend paid for my apartment for a year and bought me a car. she looked like courtny cox on a good day, and i am 34 years old and about 300 pounds. don’t let it get you down.