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I fall for someone who is very much commited…we’ve been together for a year…and now he’s leaving for good…he’s going back to his family….he told me that he loves me and he can say everything…he can do things which he cant do infront of his wife…he’s a funny guy….with great sense of humor…everything is wonderful but inside my mind i do know that he’s not mine…im just borrowing someones property and now….time is come…he’s leaving…he told me that he have to sacrifice his own happiness for the sake of his kids…thats makes me admire him most..i know how much he loves me…in a yr he makes me feel so special…letting him go killing me slowly but if i will let him stay with me my conscience will bother me forever…dont you think we had a right love at the wrong time troublesome??? Do you think is is really love..if it comes in wrong time?

Thank’s guys for the messages…to be honest im ready to lose him…why?? coz he has his family in our country…it felt like dying but i have to accept the fact that i just borrowed him from someone just to fill-in some loneliness in other country….i maybe attached with him….maybe i already fall for him…but the reality stills awakend me that i can’t be with him forever coz he belongs to someone else..i just need some strenght…my family is not with me…i need some more encouragement…my mind says i’l let goof him…but my heart is hurtin…i just tried to enjoy the few more days i will be with him…he’s leaving next month…hope i can erase him in my heart…

Love cannot be measured by age but i think you should be very careful since your still young…if he really loves you then he will wait for you…until you finished your studies…are you sure that at his age he is still single? Think…maybe your mom didn’t approved because she might thinking that your BF is already married…shes just protecting you to get hurt…try to understand you mom…and not to hurt her…and if the guy really love you he just have to wait…and show to your parents that he’s worth to win your love….GOODLUCK!!!

I hope i can help…i know how it feels to be in that particular situation…if only i can help you…but i still believe the POWER OF PRAYERS…i may not give you any help…but i will pray for the recovery of your mom…try to go in some government hospital…i think some Doctors are giving some charity works for people who cant afford to pay for the hopitalization. I’l be praying for you mom…God bless…

I tried talking to her this morning but then she suddenly shouted at me telling me that eversince i dont accept any mistake…i was so amazed with her response…i just replied her that she should look at herself infront of a mirror…if my boss and the daughter of my boss are talking with each other she’s thinking that we were telling bad against her…having a paranoid colleague is difficulty…it is hard to work with these king of people…
Any suggestion for this kind of attitude..