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• (3 votes) How do you recover after someone uses you like this?
  

  I can predict the future:)
  
  I sense…let’s see…I see, AIDS, STDS, and several other unnamable infections in his future. Feel better now.
  
  - written 10 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by casie, casie, Dragon_Lady

• (3 votes) Poll: Will Obama get re-elected?
  

  To me it doesn’t make any difference who get’s elected. Probably the same exact thing will happen again anyway.
  
  - written 11 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ▲, *CaraMiaLovesYou*, Dragon_Lady

• (3 votes) Please tell me if you find the following paragraph offensive and could anyone else find it offensive—
  

  sounds like a jerry springer episode
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Dragon_Lady, Vilén, ♫Remix.Impulse♫

• (2 votes) What were Descartes, Aristotle’s, Aquinas’, and Pieper’s thoughts on deduction and induction?
  

  No offense, but why did you decide to wait until the last minute to do a paper the night before it was due
  
  - written 2 weeks, 2 days ago – voted for by astrumaur, . . .

• (2 votes) Why you left me alone?
  

  Atleast you had a dad…
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by ☜(⊙﹏⊙)☜, Dyal

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• How hard can it be to forgive?
  

  [quote Anonymous][quote Space Weaver]Forgiveness is a funny thing, course I’m not going to write the whole definition of it, let’s just say it’s one of the hardest things to do. You see, when someone does us wrong we naturally want to pull their spines out of their mouth but that’s not what’s best. Doing wrong things for good reasons is always still doing the wrong thing. It’s always best to forgive as the cycle of pain has to end somewhere and the biggest person will be the one who forgives first. If it’s uncomfortable then you’re doing your job right as it’s not suppose to feel good in the beginning. You gradually seep into the feeling and it’s easier for you to move on knowing that there are no more grudges to be held and that you’ve come to peace with what caused you discomfort. So once you give your forgiveness, you’re free to move on to better things pretty much.[/quote]
  That is insightful, does this mean we always have to leave behind this person do you think? or does it depend on the situation?[/quote]
  
  It depends. Forgiveness teaches us to look past what the person did wrong and continue to coexist along side them to build a better relationship, however it’s not always possible and sometimes the best way to move on from a previous wrong doing is to come to terms with what happened and move on leaving the person behind so the problem can be theirs alone, especially if they don’t want to let go.
  - written 22 hours, 59 minutes ago

• Current king of the nerd auditioners are trying to
  

  Yeah it happens:/ but someday when you’re older there may be something even better to audition for.
  - written 23 hours, 28 minutes ago

• Has anybody here ever made an ice cream cake?
  

  Why can’t you just get one from dairy queen?
  - written 23 hours, 29 minutes ago

• How hard can it be to forgive?
  

  Forgiveness is a funny thing, course I’m not going to write the whole definition of it, let’s just say it’s one of the hardest things to do. You see, when someone does us wrong we naturally want to pull their spines out of their mouth but that’s not what’s best. Doing wrong things for good reasons is always still doing the wrong thing. It’s always best to forgive as the cycle of pain has to end somewhere and the biggest person will be the one who forgives first. If it’s uncomfortable then you’re doing your job right as it’s not suppose to feel good in the beginning. You gradually seep into the feeling and it’s easier for you to move on knowing that there are no more grudges to be held and that you’ve come to peace with what caused you discomfort. So once you give your forgiveness, you’re free to move on to better things pretty much.
  - written 2 days, 2 hours ago

• I am 20 years old and I live at home with my parents and I work and go to College.
  

  Fun is nice but you should always stay more focused on the things in life that are more important. I’ll leave it up to you to decide what those are. You’re grown and should be able to do what you want, but is that really best as twenty is still a rather young age to act grown.
  
  Well I wouldn’t recommend it but you can tell her “I am grown, I can do whatever I want and you can’t tell me what to do anymore!” Of course if you tried to tell your parents that in the country you’d get a might hard hit to the head…so just grit your teeth for now and take it, stop wanting to go about on your own as quick as possible, don’t grow up too fast.
  - written 2 days, 2 hours ago

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