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what exactly do you mean by haunted?

A loit about life in mundane and day to day, but then life throws us trials to show us how strong we can be and that God will carry us through. When we are faced with fire we do not come aout burned but refined and more beautiful. so hold your head high. even if you never achieve greatness or make overwhelming amounts of money, just love and be loved and that is the greatest of all

Everyone learns to love them selves at diffrent times. I aM STILL LEARNING but I don’t think anyone is truly self-assured all the time

to truly hate someone we have to see something in them that reminds of of the things inside us that we hate. Instead of facing our inward self intended hate we force it on everyone else. Find what it is you hate in your own person, face it, deal with it, then fix it.

God conficts diffrent people of diffrent things, so if he does not tell you it is bad then it isn’t for you. Like I have a conviction to not wear pants to church even though most women in my church do. I do not look down on them for wearing pants, but it would be a sin for me too, because God laid it on my heart

A bad habit is something that is not good for you but you do it anyway. addiction is something you feel you can not live without or a compulsion you can not control. and keeping a messy house is just lazy

just be yourself, and you can talk to someone to get them to notice you and if they don’t like you for you then let it go. who cares if they know you like them? The worst that could happen is they do not like you in return and in that case, there will be someone better

I have followed the advoce I have beenm given

You can not truly hate someone unless you hate yourself, and if you do hate them you will ultimatly become what you hate

It just gives me a way to be myself and stil feel ok. I take lessons from others and try to apply it to my everyday life

You are fine. There is no need to rush. Trust me, us girls, we are not all that great sometimes

I believe that the world has a way of balancing things. for every evil there is a good, sometimes we miss all there is for us

Give it some more time. Make sure that when you move in together that you can live comfortably. dont rush

please don’t use the term gay in the context.

Well I know this is going to sound harsh but don’t smoke pot for starters. I gave it up and it is worth it. I had more money and got a decent job ( that I eventually quit) get helps with your grades and maybe a grant for school from the state could help you out.