~lilies~'s shout trail with thep - Help.com

Now this is what you have always wanted to watch but never new you did till now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kN0WPw…
I know you will watch it again and again, the photography and music are superb.

35 years, I didn’t bother with the math bit, just new it was one heck of a long time. I know when I’m beat and that post was one to do it.
Dont talk to me about the warmth of the soil, If I could find it to test it, that would be fine indeed. It is covered with water, at least ten feet of it.
Well that is a big overstatement, it has puddles on it, little ones but puddles all the same. By the time it is dry enough to do any thing with it (the day after tomorrow) it’s gonna poor down with rain again.
Shame I’m not a hippo, I could sing “Mud, Mud glorious Mud” and be quite happy about it all.
The warmth of the soil indeed, I ask you!!!

Hello thep, Aww it’s okay. But you know why invited 2 mature males who might be able to tell him something.

Could you imagine? 35 years!

Wow! anyway thep, i hope you are doing alright. Is the soil warm today?

Sory, I didn’t know what to say to the post you invited me to.
If the guy hasn’t got over a love affair after all of these years, he never will. I didn’t want to upset him by telling him that.

I have to leave here for a while, will be checking back a little later.

It seems to young for him to die, it is though his time to go on that jorney.

Be glad that he lived as long as he did, be happy you had that good friend. I have a feeling he left you something worth having. A good thought about yourself, perhaps. A happy feeling inside of you.

He is still 60 years old.
I don’t know Thep. But he is still too young to leave.

Yes it’s time for him to go and rest from this weary world. It is normal for the end of life to catch us all in the end, we cant stop it.
Your memory will see him again, as he was when you last saw him, he will never grow older.
Time will gradually fade the thoughts of him from you but for now, you can still share your poem with him in your thoughts.

Hi thep, yes i will be there. That is the only thing i could do for him.

Tomorrow as i go to school, i would share the poem he wrote in my class.

I want to feel that it is normal for him to pass away. His time is done.

But it’s the thought that i would not see him again till the end of time.

Hi there lilies, I expect you will be at the funeral. Remember your friend would have wanted you to be happpy, not sad and upset.
Being remembered by others for nice reasons, after we die is indeed a great victory over death. It means his life was worth living.
The best parts of him are still alive, for as long as you wish them to be.

Thank you Thep. His burial is on Sunday.He was suppose to sit behind my office table.

I remember when he used to offer me some crackers in the morning.

Four years ago when i first knew him. He is still the same kind man i used to know.

Sorry about the death of your friend. I dont know if you believe in an after life, we all have one though, wether we believe or not.
Friends that have passed away, still live within us, in our thoughts, in our hearts. Your friend has left love and happiness within you.
So your friend does have an after life, for as long and as often as you remember them.

Hello too Thep.

A friend of mine passed away. But all people die don’t they. But it’s not thesame.

Take care.

Hi lilies.

Good day lilies.

Good day thep.

Thanks again, login out again for a short time. Will be talking to you soon.

Oh okay. The very last mail i sent was quite short. Thought i would take too much of your time if i would keep on talking.

Clue: Friends list.

Just logged in again. I meant I have replied to your reply. I dont have any response to the latest e-mail I sent to you.

Thank you lilies. Just going to logout for a while and to read it.

:( thank you thep. i have replied.
take care.

I have answered your e-mail.

Dear thep, please accept my email.

Thank you.

Okay Thep. I’ll trust you with that. Take care.

Yes ~lilies~.

Everything is OK. Will leave you a shout or contact you later. Will be in touch.

Thep, i have noticed an invite from you. But it is closed. It says it is about and for Shie. Uhm, is everything ok?

I remember Einstein, glad you are still in touch with him.
He was an allright type of guy, I think that the time you talk about, is probably one of the best times this website had. It was much more busy and vibrant. There were no bots in those days either, that helped to keep us on our toes and make us think to give good answers to peoples problems.

Change is happening all the time, we just have to do the best we can with it.

I was talking with Einstein, an old member in this site and we added each other at YM. It feels good to see old members here. I still miss them all. I was new here when you guys almost started to leave the site.

I am not very good in welcoming changes. Though i have accepted the fact that change happens everyday.

I like to see my shoutbox with messages from members from a long way before. It takes me back in time when i was new. :)

I am staying around for another week or two, I think perhaps there is a need to. One of the reasons for me wanting to leave is the constant bullying of a few of the users here. They have not been bullying me but others who use this website.
Perhaps there is a way to expose them, without it causing trouble on the website.
I will stay for a while and figure out if things can be done this way.
If it is going to cause more upset and arguament, then I will do nothing.
Perhaps I owe it to the website to make it work better.

Hello thep, yes i remember you telling me about taking time outs and all. And i think it is healthy for you and for everyone else to do it from time to time.

In fact i have not been responding much to posts, i get tired of them too. I honestly give more time with my private life now. And it makes me happier. :)

If ever you need to tell me something, you are always free to mail.

Take care always but i seriously wish you’d be back soon.

lilies

I told you some weeks back that this was going to happen.
I have other things to do and explore, I hope that from time to time. You will send me an e-mail, as I will you.
It isn’t goodbye, just that I will not be using this website.
Actually there are many reasons for leaving, nothing bad or nasty has happened. I just dont wish to have a big discussion about it.

Thep, why?

what is going on?

Well it has come the time to say goodbye to the website.
This time it is final, I wont be coming back.

It has been a pleasure knowing you, you are one of the few people who I realy respect from here.
You have my e-mail address should you ever wish to use it. I will only be around until tomorrow midnight my time.

Oh i really hope to feel this way all the time. Nothing beats it. :)

I have seen a lot of those landscaping stuff and most of them i have seen only in pictures. So it amazes me to know someone who does it himself.

My grandma was a natural green thumb person, i think i know how to take care of plants but i don’t know if i can do the same to fragile flowers. Hehehe!

I am so glad to see, you are much more contented and happy with life.
I am hoping it stays that way for you.

Thank you for the nice comments about the landscaping.
It’s something I picked up over the last four years or so. Just a natural talent I didn’t know I had.
I am quite glad I found out about it, a fair amount of people have asked me to do their gardens for them.
I would like to do them but it takes me to long to do, from start to finish.

I like to see beautiful landscapes but of course i don’t know anything of it (i mostly don’t know anything lol ) so it is good to know you have one expertise you always love doing. :)

Hehehe, well it has turned out to be a litte more of myspace but it is still nice to come here once in a while. I also think i give more time for myself now than focusing on other’s concerns.

Right now i am in content and really feeling good than in the past months. :)

I dont like the site much at all, any more. Just the few people I talk to, the posts aren’t that interesting.
Perfect peace does come from within but also by not joining with any adversity. It is best to stay away from the aggressive noisy people, they truly are vexations.
The old ladies garden is beautiful. She is so pleased with it, she has never had a garden of her own before that has had plants and landscaped.
My own is getting along fine, that is nearly finished for this year.
Looks like redecorating the home is the next bigish job.

I still love this site, it makes me happy except for some stuff that don’t make it nice. Maybe it’s all in the mind. Perfect peace comes from within. :)

I also miss Adrianna. I did not have the chance to exchange mails with her because i used to exchange secrets with her in our shoutboxes. But i was so down when she left.

I really hope to hear from her somehow.

How is it working in the garden lately?

Yes I remember hot lips (Adrianna.) Tulips (two lips.)
Dont know what happened to her, she just seemed to dissapear one day, didn’t even anser my e-mails any more.
She was one of those people I got on with very well.

We still have some of the oldies around, which is good and some of the newer ones are OK as well.

Hello Thep! :) thanks for the pic. They are surely called hot lips. :D

I remember a user before, i used to call her hot lips because of her avatar. I’m sure you remember Adrianna.

Thought you might like to see the flowers I was telling you about. Those Salvia hotlips ones. http://www.paghat.com/salviahotlips.html

Hehehe yes it has green fingers, with people on top of each. LOL

But thought it was cute also. :)

Thhheeeppp! hehe nothing.

Hugs, have a nice day/night!

I love that pic you sent me. The thing has green fingers. That means it can grow anything, any plant in the garden. Just looking at it makes me feel akin to it.

Thank you, I got short fingers. :)

Gotta hand it to you, it’s a lovely hand and you have to admit. It’s always handy to have a pair around.
I usually get dragonflies visit my garden, this year is very dissapointing, not one. Hardly any butterflies, none of our usual small birds either. I think we are loosing all the nice things of nature that I love so much. The weather has been extremely cold, for a world with global warming.
There are good things as well though, I am alive and happy at the things that are still about me. The people around here seem much happier than last year. I still have beauty and love about as well. Over all I am contented, hope the things I missed this year, are much more abundant next year. So I have lots of hope as well.
So things look OK as well, I am thankfull for all of the good things in my life.

Heehee funny. :D

My avatar is my hand. I was waiting for my turn to speak during a speaking engagement when i caught a small dragon fly laying over the table. So i took a pic of it. Then gotten hold of it. It did not seem to like that i did but it was too weak so fly or run.

I set it free. Silly me, but i hoped he had gone home to his family.

I think i have not had experienced seeing those nice flowers you mentioned. *Sigh. but sure i would love to! :D

Hey, when you can’t send those flowers in my mail did yahoo say you over watered them?

:D

I love that zebra, those evergreens it has eat aren’t evergreens any more. Soon though they will be very good fertilizer.

Cant wait till you come back.