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Okay you misunderstood my post and that is fair enough. I was talking about the friend that I love and that I thought killed himself. I was talking about the guy that currently lives with him. God it is suck a stupid thing… And maybe I am a ******* idiot in believing in him. But what can I say I keep hoping that the fairy tales and falling in love is real. Tell me its unrealistic but it does not change how I feel

I am so pissed off at his roomate. Turns out he was giving me a load of ****. His roomate ******* lied. Why would someone do that? That is not something you should **** around about. God I am so angry right now.

Guess what people he killed himself all of this does not matter anymore.

FotoStan I respect that. I really do. I believe in traditional values too but I also am very realistic in knowing that with today’s economy the traditional family is not always possible. His situation makes it impossible even though he has tried to pay for my ticket or to come to me. We have been trying for months to meet. I am at my wits end so I thought I would try to ask for help. Maybe that was a mistake.

From my own personal struggle with depression I know what its like to be on the side of clinical depression. It may seem like he does not really care about you and its gotta be hard on you. He needs friends and people around him that react with understanding. Have you considered talking to the psychiatrist or counseler he is going to. Perhaps they can help you find a way to both cope with this medical problem and help him out. Look up more inforation about depression and the effect it has on the person and the people around them. Try to stick it out for a while more. If you are talking to someone who understands depression they may help you find more ways to cope with it.

Well guys are people too. If he decides to like her better there is not alot your friend can do. She can however keep being friends with the guy. It may very well be that he seems to like the other girl better but really likes her better. She has to just keep talking to him. If he decides to see somone else he may very well not be the one she should be with.

sorry I wish I could help. Not alot of people feel to comfortable helping someone on the internet by giving them money. LOL I know this for a fact cause I need like $200. LOL I wish you the best of luck and will be praying for you.

Talk to him!! You have time before class and after class. Say hi to him. Start out with stuff related to class and the school. It wont take long before you will be talking about other stuff. Most of all try not to think about it too much.

He may have felt at the time you were being too forward. When you have barely met someone that sort of thing can freak someone out. Since you both have known each other a while now you can probably try going out or spending your lunch time together. You can ask him if he wants to go for coffee some time after work. Just start out with small things like that. Get to know him better… see what kinds of music he likes. Find out his hobbies and what he likes to do. Find out his interests and see what you have in common. Take it slow. If he likes you he will come around. But do keep yourself open to other possibilities if they come along.

I know how hard this is. I know better than anything. You took a risk and now you feel like you made a mistake. She is worth it. I suggest you go to http://www.craigslist.com to find a job through there in your local area. I know that it seems impossible but it will get better I promise. It will all be worth it.

I have been there seek medical help. Anti-Depressants can help. Plus having a counselor or someone professionally to talk to would also help.

I am on anti-depressants and believe me they help.

I am in the same boat. I think I finally met the guy I have been waiting for. I have gone through what you are going though in fact I live in California and he lives in Chicago. I am trying to find a way to see him as soon as possible. I am $200 away from that. Which is the frustrating. Its perfectly okay to like more than one person. If the girl from far away feels right then you probably should stick with her. But it wont hurt you to be friends with the other one.

tommysize its okay. I can understand how difficult it would be for you ro relate. Thanks for posting though. Its nice to know that you care.

thank you I will try.

Oh dear I have not married him. We want to meet because we think that is what we want. However one can not make a choice like that until you meet them and can see in thir face that the feeling are real as they sound. But you are kind. Add me as a friend I am going to add you too.