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• Websites Please. posted (5 months) ago
  Ok, I’m bored out of my mind at work and desperately trying to stay awake and pass the time. …

• Computer Software Question. posted (6 months) ago
  Does anyone know of any good FREE software that will allow me to put some photos (preferably with m…

• Samsung Mobile Phone Question. posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I have just bought the Samsung J600 mobile phone (in blue) on pay as you go. I want to know how to …

• Computer Related Question. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  Does anyone know if it’s possible to switch the touchpad mouse off (on a laptop) but to leave…

• Sound card, laptop problem for you clever folks. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  I have a Dell Laptop (Inspiron 4000) which has a built in sound card, which I think is broken as t…

• The CHAT link at the top of this website page is hidden by a box saying ‘Logged in as Bex’ with account links. posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  How do I get back into Chat without that link please?…

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Bex's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) How do I stop myself from becoming gay?
  

  [quote xNA][quote Bex][quote xNA]But if you’re really very worried, then there is something you can do…
  
  Spin around, touch the ground, hop on one leg, flap your arms, blow a kiss, put your hands on your hips and courtesy. Voila! You’re gay-free.[/quote]
  
  You know something, I did that, and now i’m gay, so clearly it doesn’t always work. Maybe I hopped on the wrong leg? I’ll try doing it backwards to see if I can go back to being straight. Whatever will my husband say.[/quote]
  
  No! No! Doing it backwards will make you a ‘yag’! Don’t do it![/quote]
  
  Well, my husband tells me i’m a NAG so i’m not sure what i’ve done now…..
  
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago – voted for by thedonutbandit

• (1 vote) I’m a fourteen year old boy.
  

  It means you are a 14 year old boy. Never fear, even when you’re a 40 year old man you’ll still look at her butt. It just means you’re a butt man. Some men go for boobs, some for legs…you’re a butt man.
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by phuckit!

• (1 vote) whos falt is it?
  

  Weld-Elemara….I think that good friends look after/and out for good friends. I think you did the right thing putting your friends mind at rest. A good friend wouldn’t have played that kind of joke on someone in the first place.
  
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by weld-elemara

• (1 vote) I use to be very sexually active and fast at a young age (13).
  

  You definately need to report this to the police. It is a horrible thing and you need to stop it from happening to anyone else. Your cousin needs to know there are consequences for his actions. From the sounds of things your boyfriend is trying to justify why you would ‘have sex’ with another man and assumes that it was your fault and that you lead him on (which is easier for him to beleive than that your cousin would force himself onto you - as this is so horrific). I can’t tell you what to do about your boyfriend but if you say to him, “i was raped and i need your support.” and if he doesn’t give you 100% support and believe you I would say you’re better off without him. You need support to get through this, please tell someone and go to the police.
  
  - written 2 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by **Home-James**

• (1 vote) okai so ive beeen raped and my bestie killedhimself…
  

  For your few short years of life you have certainly been through a lifetimes worth of pain. I’m sorry you’ve had such a hard time. Something I noticed about what you said.
  
  where am i… NOWHERE
  
  That’s not true. You have said that you want things to be better, you know what you want to change, you know there is more to life than this. Can you talk to your teachers or a doctor? There is so much more to this life and it sounds like you are due some very very happy moments and experiences. Please just hang in there and seek help from where you can. I know things are difficult but try to live the life you want and make it happen. Do well at school and strive for a better future. I wish you all the luck in the world. You keep going!! Be strong!
  
  - written 4 months, 1 week ago – voted for by danny.a.byrn

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• i am 42 years of age and i am going to commit suicide
  

  Mphfur, I wont be able to come here for a week now but I expect to see you here when I get back. There is nothing that we can’t help you work through. Perhaps you should re-read some of the replies you have had here to realise that you have made friends who want to help you through this. They want you to go on and will help you fight the bad and celebrate the good. We have already lost several help.com members this year please don’t add your name to this list. I hope you will still be here battling on next week. Please don’t give up on us.
  - written 1 day, 19 hours ago

• Who would you rather have as a room mate?
  

  McCain, that’s the guy that makes chips. (I only expect the Brits to get this).
  - written 2 days, 15 hours ago

• i am 42 years of age and i am going to commit suicide
  

  mphfur, your self esteem is very low right now but you CAN change this. You need to stop putting yourself down and start looking at the good. Your wife married you because she loved you, she saw something in you that she cared for and chose to spend the rest of her life with you. Please don’t give up on the hope for a better furture. There is more out there for you to see and do. If you can’t stand your life how it is now, make some positive changes. Pack up your things and go somewhere new. You think that your family will be able to get through you dying but I think you are underestimating the impact it will have on people, 1. think about the person who will find you there, what if it was a child. That would scar someone for life, they would never get the image of you out of their head. 2. think of your wife, she would never be able to understand why you did this, she would be angry that she didn’t know how bad things were and that she should have helped you more (same for your family). You will be killing a part of all of them. Sadly, taking your own life is a selfish thing to do because your thoughts are not of those you leave behind but only for your own suffering. There are others suffering too, others in much more physical and mental pain that you may ever know. Some of them can’t handle it and some of them can. You CAN fight this. You CAN handle it. You just need to start making some positive decisions and find something that distracts you from YOUR life and gives you chance to build up your self esteem and find a new purpose in this life. You have made friends here today and I am asking you not to let us down but to stay and fight, with us, we’ll be there right beside you. Please.
  - written 2 days, 15 hours ago

• i am 42 years of age and i am going to commit suicide
  

  Mphfur, I understand about not being able to show the pain you feel to your family. I understand that you have to hide it all on the inside. I also know that there is help out there for you and that you could get through this, find your inner strength, the strength that brought you to us today, that is keeping you here now, that CAN keep you here for many more year. I know it’s not easy, I know you want to give up but I really want you to stay and fight this.
  
  Perhaps this website might provide you with some answers? or support? http://suicide.com/suicidecrisiscenter/whylive.html
  - written 2 days, 17 hours ago

• i am 42 years of age and i am going to commit suicide
  

  [quote mphfur]they wont…..because all off them are the best in what they do[/quote]
  
  But if one of them did, if one of them came to you and said what you’ve just said.
  
  Do you think they know how unhappy you feel? How worthless?
  - written 2 days, 18 hours ago

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