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• my girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months were pretty serious.Although she just got out of a relationship of about 2 years long.She has already posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months were pretty serious.Although she just got out of a r…

• I have been seein this girl who has a boyfriend! posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  he lives out of state.They have been in a long distant relationship for five years now.She was unhap…

• how would you find on here the post with the most replies? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  Could it be 2 hundred three hundred or even get up to a thousand?or the post with the most replies b…

• If your spouse was cheating, who would you rather find out from, your spouse or the person they are having an affair with? posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  silly question I know…

• If someone has a problem drinking,what would you tell them? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  …

• Everytime I get involved in a relationship with a female everything starts out good and then somewhere down the line I end up coming off real needy.Which posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  I get involved in a relationship with a female everything starts out good and then somewhere down t…

• I am obssessed over this girl and I can’t get her out of my head. posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  am obssessed over this girl and I can’t get her out of my head.…

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• (1 vote) Ive been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and I’ve never been with anymore who has treated me so good the way he does.
  

  You’ll just keep feeling this way until he changes.The truth-he will not change and the more hope and faith you put into him changing the more you will come to not like him.If he does change you will still not be happy because you’ll probably want him to change more.The problem is you not him.He might grow up and start doing things that seem more responsible,but you have to be happy with him just the way he is,might I suggest self help books like men are from mars women are from venus.It is a real good book and gives great insight on relationships and your understanding of men.There will always be something about every man that you think needs changing,changing to your liking-then you will be happy-its a lie that a lot of women think,sorry accepting him just the way he is or move on and find someone who resembles or has more of what you want-like me:) just kidding take care-good luck
  
  - written 1 year, 8 months ago – voted for by precious_purpl

• (1 vote) Im fat i cant lose any weight i need help please i
  

  If you are interested check out http://www.dadamo.com/ for more info
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by markmarkopol

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• is I dont know how to just go up and talk to a random girl and get to know her.
  

  there are websites you can look for that help.There is almost a whole science behind asking questions.It really gets easier after awhile.I like your shirt is great,also most women know whats going to happen anyway.Oh he gave me a compliment now he is going to ask me out eventually.Dude I have messed up so many times it is ridicules.I still gat a little fear in me whenever I want to talk to some.If you don’t have any expectations it makes it much easier,but when you get your hopes it gets really hard.Learning to ask questions isn’t that difficult.You ask people questions all the time,trust me talking to a girl is not the most difficult thing,getting her to shut up is..hehehe
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• is I dont know how to just go up and talk to a random girl and get to know her.
  

  It’s so easy dude.Just ask question and seem like your interested.The first intial hi is the hardest.Its like anything you do you have to practice at it and you will get better,but if you don’t do it at all and keep running from what your afraid of then you will always be stuck in the same place.Have confidence in yourself.Its not something can’t can ever be perfect and your always learning.And don’t talk about yourself talk about her and let her steer the conversation.Women are far better conversationalists than men.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• How does a guy avoid beeing needy.
  

  yeah don’t get comfortable:)
  http://help.com/post/125038-everytime-i-get-involved-in-a-relat
  
  I had the same problem sorta well it seemed I did,meet your own needs yourself and you’ll never come off needy
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• So…I had this boyfriend, see?
  

  you just need someone to talk talk too.I wish I could talk to you.You have every right to feel the way you feel.No one can take that away from you and if anybody tells you you shouldn’t feel that way then forget them.Try to be fake-sad for a day or fake mad or fake scared.YOur feelings will never go away.Your message was really long so I can tell you really just want someone to talk too.Someone who understands how your feeling.It is okay for you to feel the way you feel.Feel it,if you can cry too it really helps
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• So…I had this boyfriend, see?
  

  yeah I felt the same way before.I didn’t believe there is anyone for me.Well you mentioned that you pray,Pray for something different other than a boyfriend that will treat you right.Pray to not feel so hopeless.I have felt so hopeless before in my life but once I got right with god,god made everything right in my life.I am full of hope today and I am not alone even when I am phsically alone if you know what I mean.I have a god that I believe in today.I didn’t find him through church either.Well I have been single for eight years and never been happier.When the right time comes you’ll know.I still hope that someday I will find someone but it is not my purpuse in life to wait for that certain someone to make me happy.If you keep believing that other people are going to make you happy then you will always be let down.
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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