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there are websites you can look for that help.There is almost a whole science behind asking questions.It really gets easier after awhile.I like your shirt is great,also most women know whats going to happen anyway.Oh he gave me a compliment now he is going to ask me out eventually.Dude I have messed up so many times it is ridicules.I still gat a little fear in me whenever I want to talk to some.If you don’t have any expectations it makes it much easier,but when you get your hopes it gets really hard.Learning to ask questions isn’t that difficult.You ask people questions all the time,trust me talking to a girl is not the most difficult thing,getting her to shut up is..hehehe

It’s so easy dude.Just ask question and seem like your interested.The first intial hi is the hardest.Its like anything you do you have to practice at it and you will get better,but if you don’t do it at all and keep running from what your afraid of then you will always be stuck in the same place.Have confidence in yourself.Its not something can’t can ever be perfect and your always learning.And don’t talk about yourself talk about her and let her steer the conversation.Women are far better conversationalists than men.

yeah don’t get comfortable:)
http://help.com/post/125038-everytime…

I had the same problem sorta well it seemed I did,meet your own needs yourself and you’ll never come off needy

you just need someone to talk talk too.I wish I could talk to you.You have every right to feel the way you feel.No one can take that away from you and if anybody tells you you shouldn’t feel that way then forget them.Try to be fake-sad for a day or fake mad or fake scared.YOur feelings will never go away.Your message was really long so I can tell you really just want someone to talk too.Someone who understands how your feeling.It is okay for you to feel the way you feel.Feel it,if you can cry too it really helps

yeah I felt the same way before.I didn’t believe there is anyone for me.Well you mentioned that you pray,Pray for something different other than a boyfriend that will treat you right.Pray to not feel so hopeless.I have felt so hopeless before in my life but once I got right with god,god made everything right in my life.I am full of hope today and I am not alone even when I am phsically alone if you know what I mean.I have a god that I believe in today.I didn’t find him through church either.Well I have been single for eight years and never been happier.When the right time comes you’ll know.I still hope that someday I will find someone but it is not my purpuse in life to wait for that certain someone to make me happy.If you keep believing that other people are going to make you happy then you will always be let down.

set aside everything you think you know and have a new experience!

Thank you to all who have replied.I am really happy that help.com exists.Everybodies advice confirms that what i intend to do is the same as the advice i got

myspace is how he got me I am on her friends.I guess she told him who I was IDK.I am still confused because I haven’t talked to her.I work with her and well if I have to quit then ohwell.Its my fault and it was a dumb thing todo.I have never done anything like this before and honestly I don’t know what I was thinking

hah thanks alot man I will take your advice

Thats is exactly what I would do..yeah for you

I once said…the meaning of life is to find a power greater than yourself and ask it what the meaning of life is….

everybody gets lonely….and everybody has feelings…if you want to know how strong her feelings are why don’t you ask her.Stop bugging yourself about it and ask her.I have made mistakes by never asking and all I got was nothng.I have felt scared and uncertain at times…ask her…be a man take the what you want,if it wants to came with you then great…if not move on

sure she still wants you.Do you want her though?

why do you think about other girls?

http://users.aristotle.net/~diogenes/…