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• I don’t feel free on this site anymore. posted (5 days, 18 hours) ago
  I’ve been feeling this way for a year or so and that’s why I haven’t really been o…

• poem. posted (3 weeks, 3 days) ago
  Sometimes I feel like I was born to give in, never knowing that value of the worth I contain, never…

• in life there is no completion posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  in death there is no end if the reciprical were true we wouldnt know what to do with the blessings w…

• Alone. posted (2 months) ago
  The road is much longer when you walk it alone, Peaceful fields induce visions of combat zones, the…

• Please read and give an opinion - poetry. posted (2 months, 3 weeks) ago
  [] The feeling grows until it takes over Slowly caressing your souls sanity It wants not pain or d…

• I miss the friends I used to have posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Lifes long journey has worn me out Wish i could go back to replay it all but endlessly adapting is w…

• Life seems so empty when I lay my head posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  mistreatment, insecurity, and pity arise My own self-image is what makes them fed The demon which sp…

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irregularone's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) do you agree with this statement… dont expect anything from anyone?
  

  Dont expect it, but welcome it.
  Don’t hope for it, but try to make it happen.
  Don’t be mad it didn’t happen, just learn from that who to trust.
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Siren, grbghp

• (1 vote) just read
  

  The first thing that comes to mind for me was a book I recently erad called the alchemist.
  
  I think that it’s all about how you perceive things. If you chose to perceive their snore as an annoyance it would be. Yet if you go through an experience such as dreaming they are dead, then you could change your perception into believing that it is a sign of life, and you should be glad to hear it because it means they are alive.
  
  The alchemist came to mind because part of the book explains that you can take any amount of information and knowledge from the smallest parts of the world.
  
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by ♥ Fairytale ♥

• (1 vote) Cant get my 4yr old to sleep
  

  turn off all electronics that have light for 2 hours before bedtime. Cute out all sugary stuff, including natural sugar from foot, for 4 hours before bedtime. No music or tv to help sleep. Give him plenty of walks and nutritious food during the day =p. I find that some things, like bathes, help. What does a kid have in his mind going on thats active enough to keep him from sleeping?
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by Pink Freud

• (1 vote) I am 17 years old.
  

  It sounds to me like she’s just doing it to prove a point -.- Sorry if i offend you with what i say, but i just might.
  
  First of all, if she had a kid at the age of 15-16 it shows that she has bad planning/judgement/or something like that. I could be wrong though, maybe a condom broke, or you’re just that much of a beast that putting a condom on is like giving chuck norris padded gloves. Had to.
  
  Anyways. She has no idea what life is like at all, and that is completely fine considering that she has not had any experience with living on her own. She wants her own place, but only makes 500$ a months? I made 800 dollars a month when I was 16, and I could bearly put a dent in my mothers bills that she pays every month. Not only that, but do you have ANY idea how much america is failing right now? The cost of living is going up, and up, and up, and up. The welfare system is practically useless because you can’t get in it within a few years of submitting an aplication, because too many people abuse it.
  
  
  Back to the point. She is being immature, and will either end up moving with her parents, moving to a friends house, or moving in with you. There is a chance that she may move in with another family member and call her a roomate or something to make herself feel better. If you must, let her learn about the world, and let her experience the suffering that normal people go though because they didn’t get good enough education to get high paying jobs.
  
  What you can try:
  
  Pull the whats best for the baby card, and convince her that having both parents taking care of the baby in a secure envirenment would be best
  
  Beg her to live with you because you can’t live outside of your parents house, and don’t want to be seperated from her during such a delicate time of life
  
  Convince her that saving up money before entering the real world would be a lot smarter of an idea, and would probably be better for everyone.
  
  Or, you can let her experience life outside of the teet of her parents, and let her laern that it sucks to be poor and miserable. If she acts too dumb by continuously trying to live by herself she will most likely be forced to quit school and work full-time, and as her baby’s daddy, you should have to accompany her on her trip to misery.
  
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago – voted for by Sara K

• (1 vote) How to deal with copycat friends/people?
  

  not when it’s taking away your creative soul by making you one of two, instead of one of one
  
  - written 1 year, 7 months ago – voted for by Dollface

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• I don’t want to be lonely no more.
  

  Many of us are also very lonely. It’s hard to meet strangers these days with the amount of discouragement people are given in regards to talking to people they don’t know. Facebook and other social networking sites don’t help either, replacing actual sociability with internet. You just have to make some effort towards meeting people. Other people aren’t as different from you than you’d imagine, try dating sites, try being extroverted, try talking to people. You can actualize what you really want if you try hard enough, but just trying is difficult. Someone has to though.
  - written 20 hours, 40 minutes ago

• poem
  

  I like it. it conveys a very simple message that i an relate to. try making another poem specifically about something from this one - go deeper.
  - written 3 weeks, 3 days ago

• Should I give him another chance.
  

  he doesn’t want to have a girlfriend right now for his own personal reasons. The date might have went extremely well but that doesn’t change that what he’s looking for may not be the same as what you’re looking for.
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• Will I ever have friends?
  

  dude, there’s no such thing as “normal high school things” like your mother mentioned. you do what makes you happy. I spend most of my time alone on my computer but it doesn’t really bother me. . . Instead of making friends for the sake of having friends try to find someone you would enjoy spending time with and sharing activities with and make he/she your friend. who knows, maybe you’ll have a drawing buddy
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• Alone.
  

  yea, i guess optimism is a good ending
  - written 2 months ago

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