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Take your cat to the vet as soon as possible please.
You need to take care of it and you cannot do this on your own.

Hmm, I don’t know. How are things now?

I know I was really scared of starting things with my friend because I didn’t want to ruin the friendship. I realized we probably wouldn’t be a good fit so nothing has happened. Maybe she thinks you’re afraid. I don’t know.
Everyone has their own thoughts.

I wish you the best of luck.

I don’t think you should be hurt by it. He just wasn’t ready for a relationship and probably likes you and doesn’t want to just hook up with you. He might be waiting until he’s ready to really actually care about you in that way, and doesn’t want to disrespect you by just hooking up.

I think this might turn out well for you. It’s always unpredictable, especially with good friends. I thought I might end up in a relationship with my friend but I realized it probably wouldn’t work well and I really don’t want to risk our friendship. He probably doesn’t want to risk losing you as a friend.

Get him to a hospital as soon as possible. This sounds really serious.

[quote wls25]HI,
I was living with my boyfriend and he has kicked me out. He abused me mentally everyday and then started physically beating me as well. He even spit in my face which is disgusting. I went back to him repeatedly, he never changed. He said he would and he looked sincere. He would make me happy only for 2 days or so then start the abuse all over again. Men view us as theirs once we allow them to do those things and we go back. They think they can always get away with it. Love does not equal pain and suffering. I am homeless now because of my abusive boyfriend, but I feel better knowing that he wont abuse me any longer. I have a certain feeling of freedom. Let the feeling of being pain free be stronger than that love you give him which he never returns. I know it is hard, like I said I have gone back several times, but it’s not worth it. When we suffer like this we aren’t experiencing true love. There will be someone better in the long run.[/quote]

I’m sorry you had to go through that, and that you are homeless now, but I’m glad that you feel better and more free. I hope that things get better soon and that you don’t go back again. Good luck.

You too, anonymous. Can you update us on what has been happening? Do you need more help?

That’s really nice of you. Maybe you can start just offering to listen to people’s problems. Leave notes around telling them that you wish you could take their pain away from them so that they would feel well.
We need pain to survive though.

I think you should start writing if you need to get stuff out, a letter, a free-write, a journal entry. You don’t ever need to show anyone. Just let it out.

I think things really can get better if you try. I know that physical problems can. I’m like you, and my mom notices too, she says I’m doing this to myself. She doesn’t know how much I really don’t care about myself, but she’s right. I’m doing a lot of this to myself.
And simply by doing a 5 minute exercise every day, things can improve. Or just eating an apple even once a week. I think you should try to start with the small things. Even just a vitamin can make you feel a hell of a lot better and it doesn’t take much effort at all.
If we don’t make any effort, things won’t change so easily, or at all. But if we do even the tiniest thing, we can put ourselves in a better place and start heading down a brighter path, and we can be more able to help others as well.

You have to try to take care of yourself and try to care.

Next time there’s nice weather. Just go outside. Check your vision too. This world is so beautiful, it’s overwhelming. At least for me. I hardly ever wear my glasses because there are too many details and it’s too much for me to handle.

I guess this is kind of an off-topic ramble. Not sure. I’m tired.

I just wrote out a huge response and lost it.
Now my roommates are going to sleep. Sorry, I’ll write more later.

Aww I like that a lot. I’m really glad you did that. You should try to be friends with that person. I find that I tend to feel a lot more comfortable when I am understood, and only others who have battled with depression can truly understand me.

If I see someone and I feel comfortable enough, I will do that.
You should try it too! I don’t get out that much so I may not have much of an opportunity. I did pass a friend once though and she was sitting in a corner looking very upset on the phone, so I stopped, reached in my bag, and gave her a reeses. It was so great to see her face just light up. She came up to me later and said how much it helped.

I really think you should find a therapist or counselor that you feel comfortable with and talk to them.

Try to ignore the bad thoughts in your mind. Life is worth living. Things will get better.
I wish I could write more but I am actually falling asleep.
I will write more tomorrow.

I’m really sorry if that happened, and if it didn’t, I’m sorry that you’re feeling like this.

You should probably talk to a therapist or a counselor. Find someone who you feel comfortable with.

Also, I think the cetaphil is a good choice.

Pretty much every teenager deals with oily skin and acne and such. There are some oil removing blotting things you can buy, but they could possibly make the problem worse. I read that removing too much oil causes your face to produce more.

I suggest checking google, and accept that skin problems happen to everyone, even adults — my mom still gets pimples sometimes.

Try to stay confident

Feel free to reach out to me anytime, I’ve been pretty good about checking this website a lot recently and I try to make time to write well thought out responses.