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• He tells me that he loves me…more than anyone he’s ever loved but does not let it publically be known that we are together. posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  His friends know who I am and a few know that he is in a relationship but the ones I don’t kn…

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• Why would an ex want to be friends now after a year of no contact?
  

  I have to agree with Mintra but ask to be sure and accept NOTHING but the truth!
  - written 6 months, 4 weeks ago

• He tells me that he loves me…more than anyone he’s ever loved but does not let it publically be known that we are together.
  

  Hi Dustinwolf, of course I will try to help. After reading your post, I have a better understanding your situation. I was in your situation with the same person my post was about but our events happened 20 years ago. We broke up in highschool because I was unsure then that we were “a couple” so I walked away. Here we are 20 years later and playing the same hurtful game of uncertainty.. Short answer to your question is that if she doesn’t want to commit, you are more than likely pushing her further away.. Trust me, after 20 years, you may still have feelings for her though more sentimental than actual love, but she will never forget you and how hard you tried and she will have regrets. My guy certainly did. You are going into the Marines and that family (I do not use that word lightly) will teach you more about commitment, trust and loyalty and you will realize that your feelings for her aren’t enought to sustain a “team” as couples should be. She has to return the sentiment. You may find when you do more growing (and I’m certain you will) she will not even measure up to what another girl can give you. I know this doesn’t stop the hurt now but it is what I have found is the result. Love yourself more than her and you will be happy.
  - written 11 months ago

• He tells me that he loves me…more than anyone he’s ever loved but does not let it publically be known that we are together.
  

  She lost out too.
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• He tells me that he loves me…more than anyone he’s ever loved but does not let it publically be known that we are together.
  

  dustinwolf5, Im sorry she broke your heart but I see she didnt break your spirit. I have seen a few others go through what we did. Its never fun to finally realize that you were treated as a convienience to another. He and I still speak. We have our past that still bonds us as friends but I can never love him as unconditionally as I once did and sad for him that he ruined his opportunity to have me. The cheesey old saying, you don’t know what you had until its gone applies here. Im not “gone” but Im not “here” either. His loss.
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago

• How do I move on?
  

  Enjoy the company of your friends and what CloudsOnTheMoon said…..be open to finding another girl.
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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