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whops there goes the anonymousness

nope no girl friend. its got to the point that i actually dont do anything cos im thinking in the morning… im gona feel like S**t i wasnt deceiving, their always willing i never do anything bad…

the only thing i can think of is that mabye because im not wildy attracted to them or i think im leading them… but im not, they never think that im gona make a relationship out of anything… i dont knowim really confused

sorry for not being very clear im a bit deslexic and it takes me a few attemps to get my words out propperly

ok hands up. i realise if you want to attract all types of guys then dont do this. but you wont be able to attract everyone you need to chose your desired type of lad and the approach this applies to, its simply this girls decision on what type of guy she wants… its more something you need to realise….

are you attracted to this guy?
or is that a diffrent problem?

whos that aimed at?
that just sounds like hes a bully

the question was ‘Can someone give me some good tips on how I can flirt with guys?’ thats how I would flirt in order to flirt you have to feel good about yourself and if yuo dont then you have to pretend untill you are

being confident isnt playing games, nithers the rest, hard to get shore that would be the one.. but thats just from my experiance….

i was just simply stateing how I personally found my way out of the same situation shes in

that makes sence, but if she dosent flirt with anyone then shes not doing anything anymore? i never said do mind games i said flirt it wont hurt

its the simple thing that everyone is diffrent.. a few will avoid them but some enjoy a challange because they find it to easy to get girls… i know this is how almost everyone i know feels

sorry man it just sounded like you where disagreing and saying that nothing will work.. for someone who had no self esteem, thisis how i managed to overcome it

so have you ever had a relationship? by the sounds of it you seem a little bitter, games are just a way of getting to know each other and having a laugh.

used, played…. thats why Xneo Dragon is replying how he is because hes in the place i used to be… by the sound of it he got used and played to but hes replying how he is because he dosent want people to do it…. but again its like everyone dose you can only change yourself

im one of those lads that got this allllllll the time and in the end i realised that no matter how much i want to love everyone and be everyones friends its just gona end up with people taking advantage…. you gota be number one in your own book put yourself first it sounds horrible but unfortunatly… its how we have to be

and how are they acting on it? do you like these lads?
one down side to flirting…. is that sometimes people can start to like you and you dont like them back the same way
if this happens just clarify it.. and say im sorry i just want to be friends