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• I must share this because it is the best I felt in a long time after interviewing for a job. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  I went to an interview for this new position that the bank created. I have to stay for another inter…

• My eighteen year old son is driving me crazy, besides him thinking he knows everything about life. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  And he let’s me know that I am always wrong about everything. He just seems to be blowing off …

• what is the staying about your palm being itchy. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  Does anyone remember? Something about if it is the left hand it means money going out or is the righ…

• I really need to air— four years a go to the day my 10 year old daughter passed away from cancer that she fought long and hard in trying to beat. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  really need to air— four years a go to the day my 10 year old daughter passed away from cance…

• is there any where a person can apply for a grant to start a business without buying a cd or a book that costs something? posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  ?? I am broke and my checking account is in the negatives. I needed to buy groceries for two other c…

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• (1 vote) my parents treat me like fukin **** what should i do?
  

  First, what is really going on?? I mean what is happening that you feel this way or why are they treating you this way. You what to know about **** let me tell you something. My parents hated the man that I ended up marrying. They begged me not to. But,I did anyway. Yes, I had a rocky road to walk because my husband had issues which I didn’t see. He drank. He got into trouble with drinking and driving. He did time. Meanwhile my parents didn’t see me or talk to me for ten years. By that time my husband went to rehab and we had three children and bought a house. Then my youngest became sick. She had cancer. I walked that path with out my parents. Finally, when we learned my daughter only had one more month to live, my parents decided it was time to contact me. It was during Christmas. I told my parents that this was Amanda’s last Christmas and I would talk to them after the New Year. I know what my mother was and still is like. The first thing she asked my when she saw me was” Do you thing God is doing this to Amanda because of my husband and his past”. I explained to her that if it was so then it was a God that I didn’t want to know. My daughter was 10 when she pasted. After all this time, I realize that first my mother means well but she is self centered and there is no way I will change her. I respect my mother as a mother. But, I don’t like her as a person. Just a week ago she said that I married my husband because I hated her. She really just doesn’t get it. I married him because I love him and he is my best friend. All I can say you really need to look at what is really going on in your life and theirs. It took me a really long time to figure out why my mom did what she did. She was simply raised that way. Threat after threat by her own parents to get what they wanted her to do. Plus, my mom is very interested in what the rest of the population thinks of her. Me, I really don’t care.
  
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago – voted for by jesusisjoy0

• (1 vote) I am having boyfriend trouble.
  

  I understand it hurts now. Try to think of the following year, you at your new school. Because really if he did those things to you now you really don’t need him.
  
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago – voted for by dudes_ink_moonflowe

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• Stress.
  

  Try to relax, I know that it is really hard to. I am sure that you will find something out there. You will just have to keep looking for work in your field. It just seems like everything is going crazy now because you are taking a big step. You’re finished with school and on your own. Your boyfriend owing your brother money really is his problem. That is something that is on his plate right now. I know that you care about him but you have to thing right now what you are going to do about your living arrangements. Next month is not that far away, and like you said you’re looking for a part time job just to hold you over.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• I am a single mom struggling to make it.
  

  First you said when school ends I have no idea how to pay for it. Are these student loans? If they are you can get them deferred up to six months after you are out of school. Check with the place that is holding you student loans, if that is what that is. Secondly, check with local churches for a food pantry get some food that you will not have to spend money on. Also check the blue pages in your telephone book and start going down the list to see if the there are organization to help. Depending on the state that you are in, there are agencies for child care that is based on money. See if friends or even their friends mother’s can help you. They baby sit during the week maybe you supply lunch or a weekend night of baby sitting for her. Sometimes you might need to become creative. I think everyone has bills to pay which they can’t pay for. I’ve told creditors to stand in line, if you mail them something they can’t do anything to you you’re trying. You have already have done a big step by cutting things out that you don’t need.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• my husband left me after 20 years im strugling trying
  

  i am so sorry to say this but really if you want to prove your husband wrong, then it needs to start with you. You need to look at what you can do, because everyone is hurting out there now a days. It isn’t easy for any of us. Gas is crazy and everything from soup to nuts is going up. Check your state’s career link, check to see if you can get training thorough the public assistance or some type of schooling for a job. check into a temp agencies, looking into your county public assistances office, if it is an emergency then you will get things quick, if they don’t feel it is then you’ll have to wait. check into food pantries and local churches.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• You know,
  

  Did you try your local agencies? I live is PA and each county has an agency called CAPP ( community action program and something.) Anyway, they help with electric bills, clothing, food pantry, and rent. Did you try low income housing which is based on the income in which you make? It might go up and down from month to month because say that you had a super month and made some bucks if might do up a little, usually they take an average. I feel for you I totally understand. My house has been in forecloser a couple of times. It’s hard out there for everyone.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• ………this year at skool i was reallie
  

  you don’t have to loose your best friend and your best friend doesn’t have to loose you. there is an answer for everything. find an adult to talk to. it may not be the answer you are looking for. but, really there is so much out there in the world to see and do. you may be sliding down a slippery slope now but really things will change. just talk to each other. you still have each other.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

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