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• (4 votes) I think I’ll cut my carotid with scissors.
  

  Dude, like how many times have you gone at your carotid artery? Or tried to stab yourself in the neck with a butter knife? Or jumped off a building? Or cut your armpit (eeeww!)?
  
  I think you must be some kind of…vampire! Or possible immortal thing because with all the suicide attempts you’ve had and miraculously survived, you must be something special.
  
  Or, you’re a troll and a time waster. If you even nicked your carotid artery you’d be flailing around bleeding like a stuck pig, probably panicking your butt off, but the truth is you’re just in need of some attention and a good whack around the head because there are people on here who genuinely NEED help.
  
  Get a life, get a cat, get a website, but stop posting this crap. It demeans you as a human.
  
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Mitzy★, trentlover20, Dragon_Lady, mindhealer

• (2 votes) Please help.
  

  I’m sorry, but how are your parents going to find out? Unless you plan on serving it to them with soldiers I doubt they’ll ever know. Seriously, I LOL’ed when I was sent this link, but here’s some factoids to help anyway.
  
  Your body temperature is 98.6 degrees. An egg in an enclosed space (ahem) would start to coddle after a while. You are not a vacuum either. That’s your muscles.
  
  While I’m sure this would be a great party trick down the road, I wouldn’t advise doing this again - how gross would it be if the egg had cracked? Eeeewww!!!
  
  P.S - You’ve made my day. All I’m gonna think of is you giving birth to a hard boiled egg and it’s making me giggle even now. Seriously, LOL.
  
  - written 9 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by trentlover20

• (2 votes) if not get 100 friends till the end of august,2012,i will quite help.com!
  

  It’s fine, just please don’t threaten people to be your friend. These people give up their free time to devote to the needs of others, they don’t need to be harassed and guilt tripped for something as silly as friend adding.
  
  You’ll get more friends and much more respect if you focused less on the number of people who have officially friended you and actually just get stuck in trying to reach out.
  
  It’s all good.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by rsharma.pm0, Tantalus

• (1 vote) I’m a disgusting piece of trash that shouldn’t even be alive.
  

  You are not a disgusting piece of trash. You are a wonderful, quirky person who sometimes can forget that other people aren’t used to your quirkiness. Sometimes you can be extremely hostile, unpleasant and say the wrong things without thinking but you are not trash, you’re a lovely person deep down - just very hostile.
  
  - written 9 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by ....................

• (1 vote) sick and tired of trying to ask women out on a nice date and have them agree at first and then just blow me off when the time comes.
  

  Dude, I’m not being funny but, “…..i highly doubt they can, i hide it very well. you have no idea how i carry myself when i am out and about. i am always pleasant and cordial towards women when i see them. when i am waited on by them and they ask how i am today, i always say “im great” and smile. i just hold all my anger and frustration inside…..” sounds like some seriously creepy, potentially terrifying behavior.
  
  It’s a really unpleasant question to ask, but what kind of woman do you go for? And before you say you don’t have a type, etc… you know that you do. Everyone does. There are always specifications, standards and filters that help us select the people we like and the people we don’t.
  
  My point is, what are yours? And should you maybe consider lowering them? Everyone’s advice here is great, but you seem so set in your ways that I can’t help but think it’s a little wasted on you. So, look at your options, take a really good look. When you go up to women in bars, what kind of women are they?
  
  Bearing in mind that you appear to be, for all intents and purposes, a misogynistic, manic depressive drug user with a shocking ability to hide his true and somewhat violent emotions. I’m sure you’re a great guy on a good day. I’m sure with the right attention and interest, you’d reveal yourself to be something pretty awesome.
  
  But that’s the problem, isn’t it? Because you’re not in that place with someone who’s giving you everything you think you need, you’re not going to be that.
  
  Here’s something that might shock you - women aren’t stupid. While very few of us might be some of the things you think we are - vain, vapid, mercenary, spiteful, greedy and shallow - we’re really not stupid enough not to sense a guy like you a mile away.
  
  Because you’re insecure, angry and frustrated that means you’re not exacty a great choice for a partner. It also means at the first sign of trouble, you could easily reveal yourself to be controlling, furious maybe even violent.
  
  I’m not making these judgements - other women are. You might think you’re an expert at hiding what you really are underneath (and isn’t that just the sales pitch every girl dreams of?) I’d be willing to be that you’re not. That most women you approach can sense this about you.
  
  So it’s back to your options - change your attitude because it’s cancerous, or severely lower your expectations/standards. Like I’ve said before, you are hardly the only person who feels like this.
  
  The problem is, you think you are the only one. It’s creating this kind of manic jealousy and bitterness and it’s unecessary, not to mention completely destructive to your chances.
  
  I wasn’t the least bit shocked that your paper was entitled, “why women are so shallow and only want men with money” because that seems to sum you up. You’re not the problem, everyone else is, right? I’ll tell you right now that YOU are the problem here and the second you start admitting to this, you’ll also realise that if you are the problem, you can also be the solution. You’re in control of your life, not a bunch of Shallow Women After Your Money. Which means you can change it all.
  
  Only I think you’d prefer to blame everyone else - the entire female race, apparently - rather than look inwards and consider the fact that there are way uglier, way worse off people every day who meet other people and forge relationships. I see it all the time. Good God, two of the ugliest people I have ever seen got married last month and they were also two of the LOVELIEST people you could ever hope to meet.
  
  It’s easy to blame others and become a victim. It takes strength to acknowledge that you’ve allowed yourself to become embittered and prejudiced. It takes a man to find the goodness within himself and know it to be something he could offer a woman. You could wake up tomorrow and change your life. You could replace every bit of bile and vitriol with a positive thought, a reason to be grateful for every day that you’re alive - alone or otherwise.
  
  When you’re someone who makes your own day bit brighter, you could be someone who makes someone else’s life a bit brighter.
  
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago – voted for by trentlover20

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• I feel fkn dreadful :(
  

  First world propblems is right on the money.
  
  If you’re so ashamed, move out.
  - written 9 months ago

• I AM INDIAN
  

  It’s a scam honey. Sorry.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• Can God forgive a repentant pedophile?
  

  [quote Dalek Karan]If god forgives everyone, who the hell is in Hell and Purgatory?[/quote]
  
  Indeed.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• Can God forgive a repentant pedophile?
  

  It’s such an inflamatory subject and easy to get infuriated at the idea of someone molesting and raping children, and then being completely forgiven by God. That is a terrifying concept that I will never condone. How can such acts be condoned by anyone, least of all God? I realise that in the Bible is says that God will forgive all sins to those who repent, but perhaps in those days when the bible was written there were not such perversions abound.
  
  The bible does not incorperate some of the horrors and repellent acts committed upon innocents and children of this day and age. It could not know of things like internet pornography and the horrific acts that some children suffer for entertainment and profit. So no, I do not believe this “God Forgives Everthing” rubbish because a line must be drawn somewhere.
  
  HOWEVER, the OP has not said he’s done anything except watched underage porn and while that is disgusting and highly illegal, it isn’t the same as inflicting the aforementioned acts upon children and that should be recognised before this blows up way out of proportion.
  
  OP, you have a disgusting compulsion that must immediately be STOPPED by way of psychiactric help. Where do you think this will lead and then what will you be begging forgiveness for? You have the presence of mind to recognise that your actions and compulsions are vile and repulsive because you have asked if God will forgive you. Stop there, turn your life around.
  
  Another thing to consider, that just because the bible may state “Forgiveness for all No Matter What!” there is a whole planet of people down here with you and they will not forgive. Is it worth ruining your life because you believe in the afterlife everything will be cool with God? Worry less about God and more about the human beings that you co-exist with.
  - written 9 months, 1 week ago

• What is the one common denominator regarding most religions that is there biggest drawback?
  

  It breeds fanatics who take well intentioned ethics and guidelines and use them to their own gain by way of bullying, hatred and even violence. It gives some people such a feeling of justification that they can commit horrendous acts unto others, without guilt.
  
  For most people, strength and faith are good, I wish dearly that I had them myself. But there are always those that take everything too far, twist words to use against those who do not follow their own beliefs.
  
  So much blood shed in the name of the one true God.
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago

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