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• He is online right now ! posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  So i need help from preferibly guys i think. This is our story; we were together for about 2 and a…

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• He is online right now !
  

  [quote miah_ly][quote Tymbus]He said “its not you, its me”. Believe him. What he means is you are not at fault (you are an OK person) but you are just not the kind of person for him. Leave it. Sorry. Its over.[/quote]
  
  Please help me on what to tell him im dying inside i just want to give it a shot at least i’ll know i tried.[/quote]
  
  I realise its painful, but breaking up with you by text was poor on his part and suggests that he is not mature enough for further conversation. At least He was trying to be decent by blaming himself but really his words there don’t ring true. You did nothing wrong (as far as I can read here). What are you going to do? Beg? What you need are ways to get over him. Its sad, I wish I could say some magic words that would bring you back together. Your post implies he’s on line?? you could invite him for a chat over coffee, but you know it just sounds like getting back together won’t work.[/quote]
  
  i know, i agree but i have changed now
  and i really want him back PLEASE i know u are right but now that i have changed, it can turn out to be a better relationship
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I had sex with my boyfriend and he wore a condom and
  

  Then you shouldn’t worry ;)
  how old are you?
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• I have split up from my girlfriend nearly 2weeks now
  

  I know how it feels… I’m going through the same as you.
  Talk to her in person and show her how you feel without her show her you want her back and show her you’re worth it
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• He is online right now !
  

  [quote The Irish lad]You need to make the first move. If i were you i’d just say hi in person or online. Start a convo with him and make sure it doesnt die. You dont have to reveal your feelings for him just yet. Just chat and he will understand you want to be friends again.
  
  Also, the most important thing is confidence. Never loose it. If you are confident when talking to him or his mates then everything will be so much easier.
  
  You said “friends who were all older than me and i was always shy to say anything cause i was scared i’ll say something stupid and they’ll laugh at me”
  
  I had that same problem but trust me. If you start acting confident then people see you in a different light. It helps loads.[/quote]
  
  Thanks! i’ll try just now :)
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

• He is online right now !
  

  [quote Anonymous]Then just talk to him.. Ask him if you guys can give it another shot.[/quote]
  
  that’s what i want to do but i don’t know how to start the conversation… any ideas?
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago

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