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• Fear. posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m still in school, and I’ve just started studying for my A Levels. I take A Level His…

• Insecurity. posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  I’m going to a BBQ tonight with my boyfriends friends I’ve not met (properly) before. I…

• Caring Too Much. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I care a lot about what people think of me. I try to snap myself out of it but I can’t. If s…

• Dear You… posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  It’s been 5 years, And I’m still not over you, You slipped away, There was nothing I could do…

• Someone To Listen. posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  So I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. It hurts… But I had my reasons. I don’t real…

• Dear, Little Girl. posted (1 year, 10 months) ago
  There’s a little girl, Sitting there, Curled up in a ball, Her face hiding behind her hair, T…

• Is there something wrong with me? posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  When I get out of a hot bath or get out of bed too quickly my head starts spinning and it feels re…

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Katie's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I have tried to be open with him but he just tells
  

  So maybe he’s just stressed with work?
  Do you find him more relaxed when he’s off from work?
  Maybe you two should go on holiday?
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by bmcatha

• (1 vote) Here what am i to do with my ****** life now i am tired
  

  You can’t find love, love will find you, so stop searching and relax.
  If people are telling you that you’re lying when you know you’re not then maybe you should try and meet some new people.
  
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago – voted for by solexan_200

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• When in a relationship, i absolutely cannot communicate.
  

  I used to be exactly the same.
  The thought of telling someone how I felt about them, or something personal to me terrified me, when we got close, I’d break it off.
  
  When I started the relationship I am in now, I promised myself that I’d try this time, because if I didn’t, I was just going to end up alone. And that scared me more than telling someone how I felt.
  
  I think it really is something you just have to get over, because if you don’t, you’ll never truely be happy.
  It’s hard at first, it took alot of effort. I warned my boyfriend what I was like before we started dating, and he really helped. I find it easier now, and I’ve never been this happy before.
  - written 3 weeks, 3 days ago

• How do you stop loving someone you’ve never met?
  

  I think not talking to him at all isn’t the best way to go about it seeing as you think alot about this person, it’s probably too much at once.
  
  Maybe you should try going online once a week, and speaking to him then. When you’re not online, you should try builidng other relationships and sorting yourself out.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I AM SCARED NOW
  

  I would talk to a teacher or the school counselor if it happened again.
  They can help without making things too obvious, maybe move you out of a certain class or something.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I need honest advice please.
  

  If you took him back, do you think that you’d be able to trust him again?
  When he told you that he loved you, do you think you’d always question in your head if he was lying to you?
  
  You’ve got to think about if you can get back with him and almost act like nothing had ever happened, because if you’re going to start a fresh with him, you can’t dwell on what he’s done.
  
  Personally, I don’t think I’d be able to forgive my boyfriend if he cheated on me, I would always question his actions and I’d never be able to give all of my love like I have, I think I’d hold back because I’d be scared of getting hurt.
  
  If you think you’re strong enough to take him back, then maybe consider giving him another chance, but if you don’t think you’d be able to get past it, then I don’t think taking him back would do you any good.
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• Fear.
  

  Yeah, you’re right.
  
  I’ll talk to my Form Tutor about it on parents evening, and he’ll proberly offer to talk to my History teacher for me, so I don’t have to go through explaining it twice.
  
  Thank you so much for your time.
  It really helped. (:
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

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