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• my cat wont’ move! posted (6 months, 4 weeks) ago
  i think its a leg problem, but she’s just staring, not eating, not drinking……

• how do i answer a hotline call? posted (7 months) ago
  i’ve been training on information that i can give people regarding sexual assault.. but whats…

• My boyfriend and i have recently gotten back together. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  We’ve both made changes in our lives, but one of the changes i’ve unknowingly made was m…

• knee jerk reactions. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  does anybody have examples of ways that nobody believed you when you told them somehting bad happe…

• knee jerk reactions to victims complaints…… posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  Do you guys have any examples of bad knee jerk reactions that people make when hearing terrible new…

• Imagine the female figure. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  Imagine the curves, the waves, the connection between the breast and the stomach. Imagine rubbing yo…

• everything is owned by coca cola. posted (2 years, 7 months) ago
  how do i escape capitalism?? it’s so depressing. more details?? what else do you need??? argh…

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• (1 vote) Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and half we have a daughter together that is 19 months.
  

  lean on other supports! You’re lucky to be so close to your mom and family, so lean on them when you need support. If you find him to be unhelpful and not putting in enough work to help the raise the baby, kick him to the curve! you don’t need anybody else. you can be an independent woman. it’s hard to change things, but having agency and control over your own life will make you much more happy! it sucks to be stuck and you’ll be okay because you have family around you. you’re not alone!
  
  - written 7 months ago – voted for by Lost~In~Your~Shadow

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• Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and half we have a daughter together that is 19 months.
  

  Have you told him you’re tired of this (i assume you have) and if you have and he’s still not changing and stepping it up, then its really not fair to you. You work, too, and a child should be an equally distributed obligation! If you’ve told him about your frustrations then talking to your support group (your family) is an important source of venting for you. You can’t bottle it up and be alone in your struggle.
  You can try to work it out with him, and i truly hope it works out and he steps it up, because single parenting is a lot harder than having a partner, but at the same time, being PRACTICALLY a single parent while having to deal with a dead beat dad is even harder. i really hope he steps it up!
  good luck and stay strong!
  - written 7 months ago

• how do i answer a hotline call?
  

  true. thank you :)
  - written 7 months ago

• Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and half we have a daughter together that is 19 months.
  

  no problem. i’m glad to help! have you talked to your mother about it?
  - written 7 months ago

• how do i answer a hotline call?
  

  i mean, they train us as to all the options available. Also, the people who call aren’t victims of sexual assault. sometimes its somebody asking a question or trying to help a friend… or just trying to figure out what our organization does… but yeah…
  maybe just… hello, this is the sapa hotline. and then see what they say and go from there? or should i be prompting them with a question.. I guess its not that big of an issue, as long as i answer
  - written 7 months ago

• Well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and half we have a daughter together that is 19 months.
  

  lean on other supports! You’re lucky to be so close to your mom and family, so lean on them when you need support. If you find him to be unhelpful and not putting in enough work to help the raise the baby, kick him to the curve! you don’t need anybody else. you can be an independent woman. it’s hard to change things, but having agency and control over your own life will make you much more happy! it sucks to be stuck and you’ll be okay because you have family around you. you’re not alone!
  - written 7 months ago

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