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It is possible that he does have feelings for you. I guess at this point you would be the best judge of that.
Just don’t give your hopes up and be careful, I’ve seen many gals get burned on this…

[quote peaceluvsoccer]what causes your foot to fall asleep [/quote]
lack of blood flow in the limb…

we made rockets with limited plastics and paper…

Is love, love? …wow…

[quote dazmos]
is bisexual love the same as hetero or homosexual love?
no one can know that with absolute certainty without having been consciously reincarnated as each of them.
[/quote]

Thanks for the invite. It means a lot that someone referred me. :)
This isn’t an easy thing. Yes, she should respect you, and she should also support you. If she loves you, and this is your dream, then she needs to support that.
If you want to stick together, this is a stage in the relationship where it will face its hardest obstacles. Among them will be compromise.
Compromise can be a tough thing for some people to wrap their heads around. This doesn’t mean that she should give everything up for you, nor does it mean you should give everything up for her. With that being said, it’s about sacrifices you are willing to make in order to keep your relationship. Sometimes these compromises need to be made. When one person in the relationship begins to no longer make them, or flat out decides they won’t make them, that is typically when the relationship will fall apart.
It seems to me that you support her with her dreams. It sounds like you want to stay with her too. I guess there are a few important things you both need to ask yourselves;

1. Am I willing to make the necessary compromises to keep this relationship alive?
and
2. Is the other person willing to do the same for me?

Maybe you need to help her see this from a different light. Make it clear to her that this is your dream, and that there will come many times where you will need to make necessary sacrifices for her too. If she is not willing to make this one for you, you should rethink whether or not you want someone who is not completely devoted to you to be your wife and to proceed further in the relationship.
You both aren’t there yet. Nothing is said and done. Things might change along the way and your goals might alter. I wouldn’t make any rash decisions yet, but I would think about these things if I were you.

Best of luck.

Well, just go up to her and ask her I guess. Good luck though. :-/

If you’re ex’s, why do you want her back?

Maybe, unless their ties are strong enough. But relationships always complicate things.

Well here is two reasons that if he IS flirting with you, you should ignore him.

1. If he’s flirting with you, he’s not faithful to your friend. If he’s not faithful to her, what makes you think he’s faithful to anyone? And if he was with you, what makes you think he wouldn’t do this to you?

2. What Miss_Em said, he is your friends boyfriend. Bad move.

Have you told your friend he’s flirting with you?

Well it does cause war…look at the middle east. They’ve been fighting about religious reasons since they were first able to.

Go up and read. “bub”, “saint jimmy”. Now this post is for Keep_itup, if you can’t help him or connect with him, you don’t belong here.

You’ve been insulting me since you started replying to me. Now you’re insulting everyone with religious viewpoints. Please stop. If you don’t believe, fine. But I’m not sitting here calling you stupid and calling you names. Please leave.

Xeno, no one here is proving anything, stop making arguments, and leave.

And cool Keep, I’m glad you feel that way.