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• Hi, so I have a boyfriend of 4 years that is currently
  

  didnt say anything about the friend tho…..but at least he’ll quit soon:)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Hi, so I have a boyfriend of 4 years that is currently
  

  we r going to but we cant until march or april…we have to save some more money..
  
  HE agreed to quit last night he just wants me to go get him a gym membership, pretty good deal to me :) Thank you
  
  (he saw this thing without me knowing and read all of it…he said get him a membership and he’ll quit..and that he didnt know I was contemplating leaving him, he says weed isn’t worth losing me and his baby!!)
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Hi, so I have a boyfriend of 4 years that is currently
  

  she would but my grandfather makes it incredibly difficult to ask for any help…he can juggle the job i hope, he starts next wk….he was able to maintain at his job in az b4 we moved i guess.
  
  b.c he smokes tho, it brings in more smokers to hang out with…he has friends that dont but they dont hang out very often b.c of he smokes.
  
  I dont have a good relationshiop with his friend at all, he is nice to my face but in 1 on 1 with my bf (heard thru the window once) he just tells my bf wat a ***** im being and its just b.c im prego that its bugging me and itll get better after i have the baby..my bf just replied “ya but shes kinda rite…we do smoke a lot” but then his friend came back with “dude its ur choice, she cant force u to quit if u dont want to, which u dont do u??” of course my bf agreed he doesnt want to…
  
  When that friend is near by and talkin about how they should go get this weed from here and yada yada i say “no lets not. ur gf may not be pregnant so u can live a diff lifestyle but his gf is pregnant with his baby, so he cant b doing that. he needs to grow up and move on, leaving weed behind” but the guy just continued on his conversation of how/where to get more weed…his stupid *** has a medical card somehow too. so hes goin to the clinics….
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Hi, so I have a boyfriend of 4 years that is currently
  

  i dont think i could get him to a doc.. :(
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

• Hi, so I have a boyfriend of 4 years that is currently
  

  anonymous,
  
  thank u for ur reply along with everyone elses too.
  
  i do have some family that will help if i need but they r always more of a pain than helpful…so not really trying to go to them..I dont know how to get him to c the bad in the weed, he just tunes it out it seems or tries to argue it. i dont know why he needs it so much all i know r his excuses…I honestly think he has just gotten so used to smoking all the time that he feels he needs it or wouldnt b socially accepted without it..
  
  how can i get this friend to stay away?? he’ll just go and basically tell on me to my bf and that will start more fights…i feel stuck, in getting this friend away! all he wants from my bf is a smoking buddy, its not an actual friendship..(which my bf fails to understand).
  
  i am 19 and he will be 22 on febuary 9th 2012…
  
  chunkymoves, I know he can b.c he can go out of town for a wk with me and not smoke at all and be okay, he doesnt even mention it that much outloud. if he can go a wk he can go longer. he just needs a serious drive to do it.
  
  sorry southern comfort, no im not going to send him to jail, it costs a lot more than that one night due to tickets and court fees. and he is just starting this new job with my grandmother and that would destroy that job for both him and my grandmother…
  - written 1 year, 4 months ago

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