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• (2 votes) ways the missionaries and explores hurt the indians?
  

  Not sure I understand. Were you hurt?
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by mindhealer, mindhealer

• (1 vote) Will I ever get more than friendship from any girl?
  

  I am sure you are a great guy. I remember dating as a challenge because as a girl, you seem to always be in a position of having to choose between guys. Sometimes when girls are young they miss it. They pass up that one guy because they are not sure. It really is a lot of pressure. Is there a girl in particular? Often they regret it later. Maybe you just need to find someone a little more mature or give it a few years until she grows up.
  
  - written 3 weeks, 3 days ago – voted for by Mr.blonde

• (1 vote) How can i make my children behave.
  

  Don’t be hard on yourself though. Everyone with little kids goes through this. It is normal. You get to have a messy house sometimes. Before you know it, they will be all grown up and you will miss these days. Sometimes we need to sit back and enjoy the kids and do the house work later. They are only little once!;)oh…and..Don’t forget to rest. You have to do that too.
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by Dr. Ralph

• (1 vote) am a pastor who need help with funding of a ministry from RSA or abroad, need a divine helper ASAP!
  

  Dear Pastor,
  
  I give you a lot of credit for posting this request. I understand that the church cannot run on air. It takes money to pay for heat, lights, bibles, etc. and a worker is worth his wage (your wage) as stated in 1 Timothy 5:18. The only question I have is why if you are a pastor of a church, why aren’t you raising money through the church/congregation? Other Christians are tithing at their own churches. They should as that is the house the Lord uses to feed them spiritually. You might find better results by working on stronger tithing messages and fundraisers.
  
  Are you tithing? Is the congregation tithing? If not, God will not bless the church.
  
  IF you expect people to donate (including church members), you have to give them all of the information they need to make a decision. What is RSA or abroad? What religion are you? What is the ministry you are raising money for? How much money do you need to raise? What has your congregation done before this point to raise money?
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by mindhealer

• (1 vote) There is a lady she has a 3 year old child.
  

  Head banging is common with autism. I would suggest having the child checked. If diagnosed, a child can receive medications, occupational therapy, physical therapy and speech-language therapy. The medications are used to treat behaviors and symptoms including aggression, anxiety, attention problems, hyperactivity, mood swings and sleep issues.
  
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago – voted for by mindhealer

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• The company I work for is shutting down.
  

  This article gives a lot of good advice.
  http://www.momadvice.com/money/no_health_insurance.aspx
  - written 2 weeks ago

• i keep putting my fingers inside my throat and i cant
  

  I’m glad you’ve decided to talk to us about it. So talk to us. Why are you doing it? Are you binging on food too?
  
  Often, these things happen when we are under a large amount of pressure to be a certain way, stressed or have gone through something tragic in life that. Tell us what is going on in your personal life. Are you happy? How are you feeling about family and friends? How are things going with your parents?
  
  We are always here to listen but maybe therapist can prescribe some medicine that will help you. Have you thought about trying that?
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I like cheating but i hate that i am unfaithful to my boyfriend, i ve done it three times and he always forgives me but i still feel guilty.
  

  I don’t think that you really like to cheat. You don’t want to hurt your boyfriend and it doesn’t make you feel good about yourself when you do it.
  
  I agree it could be GM262’s reply, “You do it because u had father issues and u try to fill the gap with sleeping with other men because they pay you some attention at the time” Could this be it?
  
  Think about what your motive is? Why do you seek sex from either of them? Is it sexual? Goal based? Emotional? Insecurity reasons? Be honest with yourself.
  
  Your boyfriend continues to forgive you. Why? He probably likes the sex too.. :/ So.. Is he insecure too? Maybe the two of you should sit down with each other and talk about these questions.
  
  I’m just saying… Seek your true feelings. Think through it and take care of yourself.
  - written 2 weeks, 4 days ago

• I really want to kill myself, or drop out of high school.
  

  Home schooled? Do you have any adults holding you accountable? This is important for everyone to succeed. We (even adults) need other people to encourage us. If you don’t have this and you are really far behind, consider asking your parents to send you back to public/private school.
  
  Otherwise, if you have the support, plow forward. Only 3 more years! That is nothing after all the time you have already put in. You can do this! Being that you are behind and your classes are online, you really need to work through the summer to get caught up. Don’t feel pressured. Just be organized about it. Every day 9 am - 11 am. Set your alarm and don’t do ANYTHING else until you have done this each morning. Ask your parents to help you and hold you accountable.
  - written 3 weeks ago

• Will I ever get more than friendship from any girl?
  

  When the time is right and when there’s nobody else around to pressure her, be straight forward about how you feel. Be honest and to the point. Let her know you like her and are interested in she feels about you and then just let it go. This will give her time to process what you said, think about how she feels and she will let you know. When she does, then ask her for a date. It don’t have to be awkward. If she rejects you, Keep your cool…smile and say, “No problem! Still friends, right?” and change the subject. Start talking about a movie you went to see or something. Good luck ;)
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

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