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• Can’t forget my exboyfriend? posted (10 months, 1 week) ago
  (We’re both gay) I can’t seem to forget my exboyfriend. Twice between March and late J…

• Is my friend gay and does he have a crush on me? posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  We’re both guys, 16, 10th grade, and we have a class together and we sit side by side everyda…

• Oh, I hate you. posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I hate you for causing my stomach to flip when I see you and think about you. I hate you for making …

• I’m gay, is my ex-boyfriend leading me on? posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  typed this fast –> gonna be grammar errors. Sorry. im 15 hes 16. lets call him tyler. we bec…

• Why is gay marriage such a big deal? posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I just don’t understand why there is an argument over this whatsoever! It’s just like&#…

• I just told my mom I was gay and she was totally cool with it. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  Yay!!! :D…

• Ex-boyfriend; (I’m a guy) is he liking me? posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  Ok so I dated a guy for a bit then we broke up. A few months later I sent him an extremely hateful …

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• (1 vote) Where do YOU find inspiration?
  

  I find inspiration in the innocence of a pure smile.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by reginacarrol

• (1 vote) how do you deal with a teacher who is purposely miss grading you so you you fail the class?
  

  Do better in class. Watch her “purposefully” make you pass the class. Bet it’ll be like she’s bi-polar or something.
  
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago – voted for by mindhealer

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• Can’t forget my exboyfriend?
  

  [quote wil][quote ichsprechedeutsch][quote wil]I think you’ve realized that he no longer cares for you. I think this situation is more a trade-off between his attention and your dignity. I wouldn’t let him use you like that.
  You’re not going to forget him, especially if you see him every day.
  Do you think maybe you keep going back to him because you feel comfortable with him?
  Do you know many over gays?[/quote]
  
  Yeah I probably do go back to him because I’m comfortable with him.
  And no, I don’t really know any other gay guys. I know one but we’re not friends and I’m not interested in him anyway. Being that I’m still in High School where there is a lot of shallow people, I’m not exactly boyfriend material. I have a muscle condition; I get weaker everyday and I use a scooter to get around at school. It doesn’t affect my brain, mentally I’m considered very smart. But still that just makes it even harder to find a boyfriend. That’s why I go back to him because he’s the only person I’ve dated and he never cared about my condition.
  I think I kinda subconsciously want to change him and make him not such a well, sl**. (He has different boyfriends about once a month.)[/quote]
  
  Are there queer support groups in your area? Not implying that you need support, but it should be a great place to get to know other gays. I don’t think you can change him, I don’t think anyone can change anyone. If they want to change, they only thing that will help them is their own motivation. I’ve seen people try to change each other and fail too many times. You’re better off meeting someone better.[/quote]
  
  I live in a big city, I’m sure there is, but that’s the last thing I wanna do.
  - written 10 months ago

• Can’t forget my exboyfriend?
  

  [quote wil]I think you’ve realized that he no longer cares for you. I think this situation is more a trade-off between his attention and your dignity. I wouldn’t let him use you like that.
  You’re not going to forget him, especially if you see him every day.
  Do you think maybe you keep going back to him because you feel comfortable with him?
  Do you know many over gays?[/quote]
  
  Yeah I probably do go back to him because I’m comfortable with him.
  And no, I don’t really know any other gay guys. I know one but we’re not friends and I’m not interested in him anyway. Being that I’m still in High School where there is a lot of shallow people, I’m not exactly boyfriend material. I have a muscle condition; I get weaker everyday and I use a scooter to get around at school. It doesn’t affect my brain, mentally I’m considered very smart. But still that just makes it even harder to find a boyfriend. That’s why I go back to him because he’s the only person I’ve dated and he never cared about my condition.
  I think I kinda subconsciously want to change him and make him not such a well, sl**. (He has different boyfriends about once a month.)
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago

• Which first thing you are going to do if you found formula to be invisible ?
  

  Kick my ex’s ***.
  - written 10 months, 1 week ago

• Is my friend gay and does he have a crush on me?
  

  Doesn’t matter anymore guys, school year ended today and nothing came out of it. Just wish I hadn’t daydreamed so much. Oh well.
  - written 1 year ago

• What makes you happy?
  

  daydreaming about my super cute friend
  - written 1 year ago

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