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• I need to talk. posted (6 days, 9 hours) ago
  A lot. Sorry, people. It happens so that I am going through a very strange period. Every day I real…

• Can self-discipline be natural, come “from one’s heart” and not mind? posted (1 month, 1 week) ago
  I’m so tired of thinking that I need to fight against my inner self in order to be discipline…

• What the hell. posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Really. Yesterday I got back to the town I live in, after 10 days spent in my homeland to be there f…

• An extremely weird nervous fear I need to deal with, so I’m writing it down. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Basically, I’m insanely afraid of doing something illegal. Not that I can recall any reason fo…

• Another weird post - about comunication and answering to messages. posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  Just realized something, so writing it here to think it through. So - when I was younger, I used to …

• Irresponsible, unthinking and uncaring. posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  Yep, that’s how I behaved lately and what, I believe, is a huge source (yet not the main) of m…

• Kick me, hard. posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  I need to practice (music), and I do, but there is no result, I just keep repeating the same mistake…

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• I need to talk.
  

  Thank you for your lovely reply! Indeed, this is quite a similar story that you have..! I started a bachelor degree in psychology actually, though I am very concerned that it won’t lead me anywhere in matters of future job, but whatever.
  
  I see your point, definitely, and I think pretty much the same, though I am really scared that nobody, including myself, will need my “purified soul” in the future, and I’ll end up all nice and golden, but alone, broke and unable to do any good in this life as I’ve never learned any profession cause I spent all my youth getting rid of “demons” with no time left for anything else. This is one of my biggest concerns right now, though, I’ll say it again, I’m really happy to understand better things that happened to me, and release them.
  
  I do have a weird relationship with my family, even if they’re really doing their best to help me. And although I actually understand them, I’m not yet ready to let them back in my life completely, so I try talking to them the less I can. This may be sad, but I feel it’s for the best…
  
  Sorry for this long talking about myself, but I have to get it out:)
  
  Thank you again for replying!!
  - written 5 days, 21 hours ago

• Can self-discipline be natural, come “from one’s heart” and not mind?
  

  Thank you! I think I see what you mean.
  
  Just one thing though, could you please tell me why my thoughts on self-discipline seem unrealistic to you? I’m trying to understand.
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• I don’t what to do I have been laid off from job, broke my foot and my husband left me for another woman.
  

  First of all - I am truly sorry for what happenned to you! I’m sending you my warmest thoughts and good vibes. This is indeed a very hard moment, it looks like everything just crumbled, but I think you are strong, and you can get through this. You don’t feel so right now, and this is ok, but don’t give up.
  Try to calm down, have a cup of something warm and get some sleep - it’s all already happenned, so you can push it aside fo a little while, the time to restore the batteries to allow yourself to think clearly about what comes next. Ask your family and friends for support, if you can.
  
  I am sorry, I don’t know what I can do to help you, and I’m not very good at saying this kind of things, but I sincerely wish you warmth, sun and strenght. If you feel it might help to talk - feel free to message. =)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• Can self-discipline be natural, come “from one’s heart” and not mind?
  

  @ mindhealer - Thanks! :) Actually, I’ve been reading a lot on the subject lately, but more than anything it kept confusing/”indoctrinating” me in some ways. I’m thinking now though, that what could actually help is reformulating the information in my own words and see if I can make it more digestable for myself. And adaptable to my life.
  
  @ backbook668 - Huh. I must be a flow-junkie. :) But my point still stands - one can’t always be in the flow (I guess?), so I’m in need of alternatives… :)
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

• Can self-discipline be natural, come “from one’s heart” and not mind?
  

  Thank you for your reply! (both of you, actually, sorry, mindhealer!)
  
  When I am really deeply connected to myself, I feel like there is actually no battle, I don’t struggle to discipline myself, it comes naturally, and it’s easier to face everything that comes up. But thing is, I also feel that it’s impossible to stay connected to yourself all the time, so at times there has to be an alternative solution. Which is probably struggling with yourself on the surface without the help of the actual “deep down” you…
  
  Again, sorry if this doesn’t make any sense.
  - written 1 month, 1 week ago

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