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sounds awesome. I’m actually off to a European tour this evening! So I’ll be headed out here shortly for about 2 weeks. I hope you have an awesome 2 weeks tho! Lol. You’ll have to let me know how everything is going and when you move and all that jazz. Crazy stuff. I feel so underprepared :9. Keep safe and all! :)

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moving to Missouri…that sounds crazy. Are you already packed? lol. What’s out there that everyone’s moving?

Like do you get all upset and cranky? Lol. You seem passive, but when you get fired up, you probably flip shit. You don’t seem like the type to start arguments though.

Lol. What do you say when you get mad? or do you not have much of a temper?

Coolio! That totally sounds like you’ve got a good thing going. No issues at all yet?

how’s the love life rolling!?

Hm, I’m pretty good for what it’s worth:) I just finished a new novel a few days ago and pretty soon I’m getting ready to finally transfer to a larger university, so I’ve been busy.

Well, that could be good or bad, depending on the size of your straw. lol. Any more lined up?

Sup:p, hope you can forgive the long wait (had a lot on my plate) how ya doing

lol you tell em! How did your interview go?

Even better. That sounds awesome and like it’s a lot of fun. I likey! I wouldn’t care much about the age difference…it’s not like he’ll 12! It’s only 2 years difference. When I was 25, I dated someone who was 19. And the older you get, the less of a problem it becomes, so keep it going if you love each other and don’t let that get in your way!

That’s awesome! What do you guys do together for fun?

How was your interview!?

Already!? That seems fast. How do you know you’re not rebounding? It seems a lot when you talk about guys, you talk about how much they love you….what I don’t hear a lot is how much you like them? It seems kinda like you’re indifferent. How do you feel about him…other than he’s 16? Lol. Seems like that’s an issue for ya. I’d be careful tho…Don’t date anyone you’re not going to be happy with.

Hope you get the job!

Ah craziness! Did he tell you why? Sounds like more drama in your lovey life :/ Maybe this job opportunity will be good and you’ll meet a super-dude! What’s the job?

Well, hope you get better soon. Sucks to be sick for that long! Hmmm..sounds like he can come pick you up then! lol. Are you still trying to find a job?

So you left the guy who was really good to you for an older flame you used to talk to, but it didn’t work out? That’s crazy. You have a very dramatic love life. lol.

You can always drive! I’ve gone pretty far in the car before, but I don’t mind planes either. If that’s your only drawback, it seems teeny.

How are you feeling? Did you eat lotsa chicken noodle soup? hehe

That’s awesome. You should send me a picture sometime! Well that’s cool too. Some people on here are really awesome. Are you going to visit him sometime, or is he gunna come see you? I can see how that could be hard…especially If you like to cuddle! Haha. That’s cool. I love getting gifts early! And sweet things too. How was your weekend? Lots of snow here today.

Well that’s pretty cool. What kind of dog do you have? Do you think this past ex is scared from your past relationship, or do you think he’ll be able to move on? Glad you were able to get in contact with him. I hope it continues to go well. What was so great bout him? Tell ur dad happy bday :P haha. Did you get him a cake?

That is pretty kick ass. I love animals too. I have a small doggie. I used to have 3…lol. How does one become an animal control officer? Do they have like a school for that? I think you should do it. Those bastards do need to be put in jail! What did you do at ur dads? Have fun?

Aw. Someone brought their dog into work today. lol. He’s funny. Are you an animal person? I’m going nuts cuz I am prepping for a film shoot tonight and it was way short notice. Now I have too much crazy running around to do…and it’s gunna be a long weekend. Any plans for you or just chillin?

Well go ask him out! haha. Whatcha up to these days?

oh my, you need to find one! Sounds like you just need a nice dude who would at least show you respect, enjoy spending time with you doing whatever as long as it was with you. You should experience that….see what it’s like. I think you’re cute, you shouldn’t have a problem finding one :P

You haven’t been around a nice guy, ever? Like someone who’s bought you flowers at least once?

That kinda sucks. What are the guys like that you’ve met? Like the best ones, not the worst ones…

Aww. lol. I do that shit. So there’s one:P I have a few friends that are like that too. Maybe even more-so than me! I guess you just have to wait for them, maybe….you’ve never met a nice guy?

But that IS being treated right. lol.

So what aspects then? Like what’s important to you in a guy….love and admiration? They make you feel special, they go out of their way to make you happy, they do nice things for you, like surprise you at work with flowers? They take care of your emotional needs, you can always talk to them about anything….? They kiss you like they mean it, hold you when you’re sad, play with your hair when you’re just relaxing and watching a movie? They tell you how beautiful when they look into your eyes or see you smile? They have a picture of the future which includes you growing old together, sitting on porch swing and yelling at the neighbor kids to get off your lawn? Lol. That kind of guy?

like what aspects? A big penis!? lol :P

crazy. I don’t think I could just switch over like that. Do you know what you want in a guy or are you not that picky?

lol, what’s going on in your love life now? You do have a crazy love life. How come it’s so nuts?

lol, do i bore you?

what movie this time? Are you big into horror films at all?

oh I see! lol. What’s up in your world today?

have you met this FB dude? lol. If his profile disappeared why wouldn’t you just call him? You have a pretty crazy love-life, ya know that? haha.

Oh hell no! Go find someone who can treat you better. He’s flawed. He’s using you as a last resort…I give everyone a second chance, but if they blow that…it’s over. I have too much self respect for myself to be someone’s rag/sex/emotional toy. You should too. There’s always other, better options. I know ppl are just drawn to that though, that kind of lifestyle. But I guess you know what you’re getting into if you go down that road. But I’d keep him at a distance for a while and not get too close. That’s just me tho…

well he can’t be your ex if you’re with him, silly :P how’s that going? What happened that he was your ex?

Well that’s good. Company is nice. That’s one of the other pitfalls of VD…especially when you’re along you feel worthless…more reason why I’m not a big fan…

Well that is no fun! Why so sad though? Sometimes I like being alone then. I guess I’m not a big fan of vday to begin with though :/ Esp when showing your love and affection is obligatory. What a joke! I prefer to just randomly pick a day to be sweet for no reason. It’s more genuine….either way, I think you’ll make up for it soon enough, so no more tears!

So how was or wasn’t it? lol. Hopefully you had a great time! What did you end up doing?

ah, I see. Yes it is! I made chocolate strawberries. Are you doing anything fun?

lol, how was it fucked up? Like in a good way or bad way?

I do know of james patterson. He does the detective/thriller stories, right? I haven’t read anything personally, but I’ve heard he was good. I wonder how good they are? I’m currently working on a crime thriller film, so it might be interesting to get some ideas. Did you like it?

The original Ice Age was good. I don’t remember the others much, but I remember that they were funny. I haven’t seen g-force or Alex Cross. Either of them any good?

that’s a youngin! What movie did you watch this weekend?

Sounds about normal. lol. how old is your nephew?

sleep? lol. What do you do on normal weeks?

what do you do on terrible weeks? lol

Ah, I didn’t know that you were into all that stuff! Is that your stash for for sh**y days? Lol. Total bummer though. Any luck on a new job so yet?

Hey, I know you were probably annoyed when someone insulted you here without any reason a few days ago, and it may already have been explained, but she was insulting lots of people, almost randomly, being so mad at being banned from the site for getting into to bad of arguments with people. So, that was someone that wasn’t supposed to be here anyway, and they kept banning her. It was just a lot of drama because it was someone who liked being here and was really smart and helpful but also went way out of control in insulting people. So, sorry about that.