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thats beautiful :)

maybe contact a pc technician, he might help you a lot.. You can to any electronics store I believe they should know what to do

I know what you mean! I made many web friends to however I never really met one in real life.. But its nice to talk to people from all over the world and exchange experiences :)

[quote CodyCorona]he is shy! its as simple as that! haha for me, no matter what…if i like a girl, and shes around, i get nervous and butterflies in my stomach. and im not the type of guy who gets nervous around people, just when the girl i like is around. haha its normal. i think you should be the person who goes to him a bit, rather than wait for him to slowly come out of the shyness. (plus, i think times need to change and girls need to do all the asking out!!!) haha hope this helps :][/quote]

thanks for replying well its nice to know that he might act like this because he’s shy but we will see in the future I guess :) thnx :)

[quote mintra]Try saying to him I am in love with you even though you seem a bit bit weird.

Bound to elicit a response[/quote]

I dont know Im afraid he will reject me plus I cant just walk by and say “hey dude I kinda love you” he is shy :/ Anyway thanks for the help hun!

[quote Anonymous]yeah dont think about it, from a man point of view, one day i would chat away to someone i like, the next day i may have my imaginary jukebox turned on and walk right past them.
Assume everyone likes you and if they seem off one day, it has nothing to do with you, it is simply them with their mind on a situation not related to you.
If you like him and want to be more than friends, invite him out to a public place for a coffie.[/quote]

Thanks a lot, Ill try getting closer to him :)

[quote Anonymous]yeah dont think about it, from a man point of view, one day i would chat away to someone i like, the next day i may have my imaginary jukebox turned on and walk right past them.
Assume everyone likes you and if they seem off one day, it has nothing to do with you, it is simply them with their mind on a situation not related to you.
If you like him and want to be more than friends, invite him out to a public place for a coffie.[/quote]

thanks that was really helpful! We are still on highschool but I’ll try getting closer to him. Thanks again :)

[quote justinjohnsonsli]how much time have you spent with him?

these nice quite types can be very odd till they warmup to a person. try to hangout with him as much as you can. ether he will start acting normal or you will learn enough about him to understand his weirdness.[/quote]

Well I know him for years but we have been closer the last 4 months.. thanks for replying :)

[quote linuxya]He’s anxious around you.

When guys are anxious they either go aggressive (tease) or retreat (avoid). He doesn’t know how to manage his excitement when he’s around you. Every interaction with you could be acceptance or rejection. If he’s a kid then he’s going to wonder about how the other kids react to all of this as well.[/quote]

Ugh that gives me a tiny hope lol :P But im not one of those girls who are snobbish and act like they are queens or something Im actually pretty friendly and open person.. So I don’t know.. Sometimes its like he is mad at me or something.. we’ll see I guess. Thanks for replying linuxya:) :) :)

Hun I have been there, but dont let it get you down. YOU ARE A BADASS. you will be fine by yourself cause deep down you know you have the power, you just need to find it. Start a new hobbie, something that makes you happy? For example, I feel so good when Im drawing and when I feel sad the only thing I need to do is draw and it light me up :) You wont always have friends in life.. You have to learn to be strong and be fine when you are alone.. You will meet new people soon, im 100% sure! Just remember there is nothing you can’t do! Just believe in yourself :) Maybe get a pet? A cat or a dog? They help you know.. Its like they know how you feel and you wont be lonely :)

[quote Anonymous]maybe it is his “weird” behaviour that attracts you, if he started acting “normal” he would be just like every other guy you turned down?[/quote]

its not that his is weird, hes actually really cute and sweet not a jerk like all the other guys today.. he’s weird with me.. I mean the one day he will tease me and talk to me etc. and the next one he wont even say “hi” :/

Hun life is too short to waste it on worrying. Just have as much fun as you can, start new hobbies.. maybe you meet new friends there, people who have the same interests with you! and if you don’t, it’s okay you will be fine by yourself cause hey - you are gorgeous and never let anybody say the oposite. hugs :)

this is lovely 3

I believe you shouldn’t tell anything, since this guys is your friend. I mean whatever happened you are still friends right? And with the other girl are you friends too?

Aw you shouldn’t! Im sure you have done some great stuff in your life you should be proud of! You can always turn the page and start a new leaf. Wake up in the morning determined to never worry about your image, the solution is simple! You change what you don’t like! Thats what I do. Don’t like your hair? Go to a hair stylist, etc. Find time for yourself. SPOIL YOURSELF, you deserve it :)