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chris0320
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chris0320's Top (4) Replies by other users' votes
- (1 vote) I’m Gay.
my friend told everybody about it. I mean he talks about it and doesn’t care and I doesn’t care either, he’s a good friend. Everybody knows that he’s gay and actually nobody talks about it because nobody cares. Well there are some people who don’t like him because of that but those are not his friends so that doesn’t matter in my opinion.
If you accept it yourself and act normal than you won’t lose your true friends or you’ll people who accept you for who you are.
- written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by AnExtendedHand - (1 vote) I Need help an I don’t know what to do, me and
*Sorry for the long text*
that’s not much, but enough for a relationship. I think this is your first. You are inexperienced and dont know how to act in different situations with a girl (probably). BUT! that’s normal. In my opinion everybody messes up their first relationship (just like you and the girl). Now you know that you should kiss and hug her more, and she learned something too.
If you have feelings for each other than you’ll be together, just dont force it. An if you act like a puppy, going after her and trying to get back together, she’ll have no interest in you. I dont know why but girls dream about the perfect guy than choose a douchebag and they know that guy is an a**hole, but they have a best (guy) friend who would do anything to make her happy, but that’s not good enough, they need that a**hole to make them cry. Sorry girls, but that’s true.
I’m not saying that you should be an douchebag, but if you’re a good guy than possibilities are that you remain friends and you’ll think about that every night.
Once you’re in the friendzone, it’s hard to get out.
My advice is to try to get her back, but try once, if she says no, than act like she didn’t even exited. No contact at all and if she always tells you to meet up or something, tell her that you dont wanna be just friends and better not go out anymore. Have balls and tell that in seriously. One short sentence and tell that you have to go. bye. You dont have to be a d**khead to tell her that and you dont have to act like a rude person, you just tell her that bing friends is not what you want, if that’s not okay to her, than you’re sorry and good bye (but than you MUST NOT contact her in any way, if she does, than short (kind) answeres, no questions, bye).
buuut, this is the worst case scenario. I hope you’ll get back together and everything is gonna be fine.
- written 4 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Docteur Ralph - (1 vote) I was so afraid that he lost interest and he has…
then you did your best.. maybe you two were not meant to be together. you’ll find somebody who will love you after 10 years just as much as he loved you in the first month. I know its hard for you now but i hope you’ll find somebody who will really love you :)
- written 10 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by windmills, - (1 vote) What does depression feel like?
actually i felt like nobody loves me, that they dont even notice im there with them. i was just listening and didnt say anything because i didnt want to say something stupid. (in my opinion everything i said/asked was studip). i thought i had no friends, i’d like to end everything just like you after i made the smallest mistake (or maybe just i thuoght it was a mistake). i was sad for no reason almost all day and didnt want to leave the house. and actually i read about it that sadness is some kind of pain that starts from your chest, like somebody put a few pounds on it. maybe your experience the same with “more weight”.
my advice: do as you wish. and you are just as human as your friends. if they can do something, you can do it too, it wont be a bad thing as long you do it.. you just have to know what you like/want and do it. people will gather around you with the same interests.
- written 10 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by Igkn