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hi! i’m sorry it’s been so long, but i’ve been totally overwhelmed.
how are you?

Hello! I’m sorry to leave with such short notice, but you can’t really help something like that. I’m alright, I just need a few days to get the sleep I need and recover emotionally. Thank you for your concern < 3

I just read your reply on Sansceriph’s who are you post…we have so much in common! Haha for as much as we’ve talked I can’t believe we didn’t notice this.
My parents divorced when I was seven too, I lived with my mom and stepdad until I graduated college. I love to sing, my favorite color is green and I think Michelle is an awesomeee name. Weeee! How cool is this??

Orange~! I’m the Indigo that red has so nicely introduced. You read the post? Brilliant~!

*Goes and friends you*

Welcome to the rainbow crew then~!

Thanks for the reply…hopefully you read this before that, though…

Hey! You don’t know me…yet but you’ve got Orange in your name and Indigo and I were wondering if you’d be friends with us so we could make the rainbow. I know it sounds stupid but I’ll send you a link to the post we were talking about it on!

Hellllo! I’m sorry it’s been so long, but I just moved and I’m still getting settled in (which takes a lot more time then I had anticipated). Update me, how ya been?

woohoo! No more school! I just graduated so I’m off for quite a long while, until I got back for a master’s. But that’s only if you call getting a job ‘being off’
I just moved across the country, so things have been insanely busy!

Hello! How was your weekend darling? What’s new?

anytime :O)

You totally nailed it though, just let it flow, you’re exactly right.

haha it drives me nuts when I send them to myself! I always click on the Shout-trail link now so that I can’t do it no matter what hehe :O)

lol.. thanks =)
i love your advise. it gave me a little confidence boost which i really need. i will take your advise. thanks, you have given me something new to look forward to. ill try to clear things up too.. but im in no hurry.. ill let things flow for now at this point. thank you again for being there for me. =)

Well listen, you did everything that you could do. You should feel content about that even though the ball is in her court. Enjoy this, now she has to figure out what to do and you don’t. There would be nothing wrong with asking her to tell you how she felt. Maybe you could send her a message and tell her something along the lines of ‘It really took a lot of nerve for me to say what I did and I’d really like to know how you feel about all this’. The beauty of saying what’s on your mind comes from the peace you achieve by getting the thoughts out of your head and into someone else’s. I know that it’s very very difficult because even with all of that, you never know how they will feel. Don’t worry about how she feels for someone else, all that matters is how she feels for you. I still think you should be incredibly proud of yourself for doing what you did. It took a lot of strength and courage. Not many people would have taken the risk and that makes you extraordinary. Don’t let that feeling wear off.

and don’t ever worry about typing me something long :O)

Is everything still going well for ya? I hope you’re still smiling :O)

omg that’s so wonderful! I couldn’t be more proud of you! I hope that you are having the most peaceful night sleep ever, because you’ve certainly earned it. woohoo! Go you!! :O)

Oooo! GOOD LUCK!! I know that you’ll be so happy with yourself when you do and I wish you the best! Please let me know what happens, I’ll be anxiously waiting.
:O)

I’m always around so don’t hesitate to ask anything. If she’s a true friend and she accepted you for who you are then you’re truly blessed. Finding someone who really gets you is so amazing. Kudos for making great choices. Keep me posted! haha I’ll check in if you don’t :O)

haha.. thanks =)
i know i will do it. ill build the guts..lol. this website is quiet helpful because of peoples like you. it helped encourage me to come out to her in the first place, when i told her i was bi. fortunately, she is a true friend and accepted me the way i am. the next big step would be telling her my feelings. thanks for your support. haha =)and thats awesome that everything is going well for you =)

Oh it’s going well, busy, but well.

Maybe if you do it right before school’s over it would be best. This way in case something does go wrong you have all summer. The only problem with that is it’s due or die…no chickening out. Just a suggestion though, do it whenever you feel ready. You’ll be so happy with yourself once you do it and you seem very nice, I can’t imagine why she’d say no :O)

Any new updates? Did you tell her??

I hope all is well :O)

lol that would be weird ;)

totally!!

g’night

omg! you live in Santa Ana! i do too!!!

Same! southern. u?

it’s tthe same as a violin… i think. lol ya the wethers messed up here too! u live in the U.S.?

i’m hot,semi-bored,tired,and bleh. other than ll that i’m as fit as a fiddel. why are fiddels fit?

im good. kinda sleepy… and you?

hi :) how are you?

my feet are black from dirt.

howz it going now hun?

congratulations. that was a big step and it took courage.