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Thank you for the words of encouragement, cuz i am having a really hard time not letting him back right now, last night was one of the hardest decisions i have ever had to make, and what you said is what i have been tryin to find the words to say… so again Thank You

Save every single receipt, and get a hard copy of all the bills to show him, and then after he looks at them, pull out your paystubs, and show him, you just have to prove to him in black and white. sometimes people have to see real hard cold facts until they will beleive anything.

Tell him to watch the mary k laterno (not a clue how to spell that) movie, and show him that if he really loved her then he wouldn’t want to get her into trouble that way, i am assuming you are in high school??

Well hunny I know it hurts but if he already has a new girfriend he is not worth it..

Tell him what is up, and how you feel. If he doesn’t feel the same way at least you tried you will not be the failure. I do not beleive the famous quote “Things are better left unsaid” it is better to be out in the open with yourself and your feelings.

Re-evaluate your life, and the things you are proud of, the good things, and build from there. Even if you feel there is nothing good, there always is. It seems as though you might be to proud to file bankruptcy, but don’t be, if it something you need to do then do it. Maybe for starters know that you are smart and are trying to seek help unlike 90% of Americans. Statistically 90% of Americans are so far in debt that they will never be able to pay for it, throughout a lifetime of work. So just know that you are not alone, but you are smarter than others becuase you realize your financial bind and are trying to get help with it.

I am so sorry to hear this, it truely saddens me, and makes me feel for you. You have to somehow on your own come up with financial documents proving that you didn’t make any money off of your father’s property. Show that you payed the taxes which being on ss you probably didn’t have the money to pay anyways. As for Doris, you are doing your best and your father i beleive would be lookin down on you and be proud of your efforts and feel for your struggles. I do not know if you are a religious person, but I will pray for you, and even if you don’t beleive in a god, try praying he always seems to come through for me. My condolences to yous, and if there is anything i can help you with I will be here, just ask.