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We have absolutely no spare money, I live in a tourist town there’s nothing free to do that would take my mind of it. I guess it’s normal. I hope. I just feel abut lost. Scared. Lonely. Unsure I’m living a full life. It’s NT to do with him hundred percent he’s the one. Just don’t know why I’m feeling this way. I could do with hatting away from it but can’t still so much to do. Worried wer not going to afford it all too . Only nine weeks left. Wish I could think of a way to earn some extra money. It’s so hard isn’t it. I should be so happy atm. But I just feel abit .numb

how are things going for you??

you still not found the answer. for a boy scout, turn of power supply if can and phone special services, second question, drop to floor crawl and drag to safety. third, cover with damp blanket and roll on the floor till flames suffocate and throw a life aid and pull in ie ring. i think the answer could just be phone emergancy services for a boy

The post was just to hear how others found their calling… Maybe i wrote it wrong? But thanks fr the support ando ideas guys

Its not really that disturbing I guess . Its disturbing he’s happily saying he’s 40 odd and wants a 14 to 17 year old!! it needs reporting as a human being if you know someone is trying to brake the law and most likely hurt and abuse a child, you shouldn’t need to ask get it sent to the police before someone does get hurt..

You should email the police with your story . And attach the convo. And pictures. You have to, because your right.. And he might already be talking to young girls .

Do it! Maybe she’s married with kids… Maybe she’s your soulmate and you are both just afraid and unbelieving in love at first site.. We get one life. Take a chance what’s the worst that could happen.

Too true!!! [quote monkichirmo][quote southern_comfort, IP]10 years together and just last year you popped the question..? I wouldn’t have waited that long myself.[/quote]

lol. i don’t see why anyone has to wait for the other to ‘pop the question’ nowadays.[/quote]

I’m on my mobile and its changed the order of my reply. I don’t love my ex at all. He’s a vile creature and I’m over him. My problem is.. I’m now with the perfect guy for me. Our relationship is great… But my insecurity is still there and I don’t know how to change it. I’m so scared I’m going to ruin a perfect relationship because of my past. I’m trying so hard not to let it but every now and then I slip up. I genuinely trust this man. But then the “little signs” from the past happen and it makes me start digging. Even though I think there’s nothing to dig for. I’m afraid I’m going to push him away.he says it won’t and it takes time.. But then ill say something and I can see it in his face. I just need to let myself let him in all the way. But that’s so hard

:( I’m so sorry to read this. There’s nothing I can say to make you feel better.. It will get better though just take some time to deal with it and keep looking for a new job. Make sure u do right by your daughter as just as much as your hurting she’s probably confused and hurting more. We as humans addapt pretty well and as much as this hurts right now I promise it will make you a stronger and happy person in good time.. If she could just switch her heart of like that your probably better without her.. I know none of this makes a difference but just keep posting on here there are a lot of geniunly concerned people here. I hope it eases up soon

I like to think I’ve learnt… But that’s half my problem… Seeing the little signs.that although have been in the past signs of betrayal… Doesn’t mean they are this time,right?? That’s the majority of my heart says he’s different and loyal. But the hurt side of me picks up on everything and makes issues of things that arnt. Although I don’t nag or say too much, I know he’s picking up on it. Amen to that sherlockian.. He really was a duchebag. Just wish I could let go a little bit… But how do you willingly let someone maybe hurt you. I really want to but I don’t know if I can or how :(

I hope you followed your heart and head and made the right decision for you

All men are different with different passions. Think about his hobbies and things he likes doing. Depends what u wanna spend. But what about concert, football or driving experience tickets? Or a dinner date is a nice way to show appreciation.

I know :( I know he’s going to walk now because of the contact thing. I feel so bad. Like a slag. I wouldn’t mind but I don’t sleep about and have never cheated on anyone. I just don’t have a clue what to say to him.I’m in england we don’t all sue eachother like that and the less people that know the better. Do you think I should be like…. Oh I just got tested and found out I have this. I have already told him bout the cheat. It was with a transexual… I’m hoping that will make him understand. He’s never going to say :( its one thing taking on a girls kids. Its another taking on this aswell .

Talk to your wife. Firstly decide what matters most to your long term happiness. Her or a guy. Imagine if it was the other way round. U must talk with her