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• why do I feel so … I don’t know. posted (1 week) ago
  Sad. I’m getting married in 9 weeks I should be happy. But I can’t snap out of it. It…

• The horrible feeling of knowing your not just made to exist. posted (7 months, 3 weeks) ago
  But having no idea what your calling is… Pretty pants… Tell me how you found your calli…

• Why do I feel so sad today :(. posted (7 months, 3 weeks) ago
  My life is perfect atm. Amazing kids. Great bf who is moving in in a month. Great family who love me…

• When you’ve been hurt and lied to a million times.. posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  How can you let someone in… How can you not mess it up with insecurities..…

• Just a rant :( … posted (8 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I’m so hurt right now. I’ve been cheated on a million times in the past the last cheated…

• think of a great third date? posted (10 months) ago
  ?? Please… So think ice finally! Found mr right lol. Bes perfect. Our first date we went to di…

• Blah… Some ppl…. posted (10 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Are just destined to be single and lonely…

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scarlett87's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) just want to say, all you “helpers“ keep it up.
  

  [quote Ol’ Doc Ralph]Thanks.[/quote]
  Welcome, you have wrote advice on a few of my posts over the years. I really apprieciate it
  
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Dr. Ralph

• (1 vote) To all the Helpers..
  

  Haha, my post similar to this got deleted?? I wonder if yours will..
  
  - written 11 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by iloveu2

• (1 vote) I have to kill myself.
  

  heaven does not let people in who take their own life, eliptheri what an idiot! Why would you go out of your way to bring a person doqn whos already at the bottom. This site is for helping people, not making them feel worst
  
  - written 12 months ago – voted for by pearlbone

• (1 vote) 14, and never kissed.
  

  On my side? … I didnt realise this was a game. This person was concerned about their normality and you tell her/him its wrong to kiss at 14 and theyl get pregnant? I dont know what era your from but i assure you its perfectly normal to kiss another perdon from 11, to 14 to 89 if you fancy it, majorty of ppl have their first kiss before say 18 and are all of them tean mums? Even are most of them? No ofcourse not. We are on this site to help people with advice, not too scare them from a perfectly natural part of life. Or to “have sides as you say. 14 is a very delicate age and as you agree there are too many tern parents, im sure they know about sex alrdy from school health ed, so you putting it more in their mind is not what they need, anyway thats enough contact between us, you dont want me getting pregnant now do you :p
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by ⓘⓝⓚ

• (1 vote) What do i do with this girl?
  

  i wouldnt,, but im a girl lol. it sounds like shes still clinging on to the emotions with her ex, say u did beg her and even got with her, is it really gona work with him still in the picture? not only that but girls are just like guys, we dont like clingy,, you have to show her that you do really like her but your not just an option, maybe remind her hes an ex for a reason but i think if you start getting all obsessive right now then she might choose the surer option, she already has feelings for him remem, but i could be wrong even ill admit girls are very confusing. id give her time to wrok out what she wants, but make sure she knows your feelings and try keep your relationship not too heavy so your not forcing pressure on her.just remember your own value, im sure your worth more
  
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago – voted for by Wyyldfairy

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• why do I feel so … I don’t know.
  

  We have absolutely no spare money, I live in a tourist town there’s nothing free to do that would take my mind of it. I guess it’s normal. I hope. I just feel abut lost. Scared. Lonely. Unsure I’m living a full life. It’s NT to do with him hundred percent he’s the one. Just don’t know why I’m feeling this way. I could do with hatting away from it but can’t still so much to do. Worried wer not going to afford it all too . Only nine weeks left. Wish I could think of a way to earn some extra money. It’s so hard isn’t it. I should be so happy atm. But I just feel abit .numb
  - written 1 week ago

• So, I’ve said I don’t care..
  

  how are things going for you??
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• how would you safely save someone from the following:
  

  you still not found the answer. for a boy scout, turn of power supply if can and phone special services, second question, drop to floor crawl and drag to safety. third, cover with damp blanket and roll on the floor till flames suffocate and throw a life aid and pull in ie ring. i think the answer could just be phone emergancy services for a boy
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

• The horrible feeling of knowing your not just made to exist.
  

  The post was just to hear how others found their calling… Maybe i wrote it wrong? But thanks fr the support ando ideas guys
  - written 7 months, 3 weeks ago

• I was on omegle tonight, and there was a screen saying “Older man Looking Young Girl 14-17″.
  

  Its not really that disturbing I guess . Its disturbing he’s happily saying he’s 40 odd and wants a 14 to 17 year old!! it needs reporting as a human being if you know someone is trying to brake the law and most likely hurt and abuse a child, you shouldn’t need to ask get it sent to the police before someone does get hurt..
  - written 8 months ago

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