someone on this site's shoutbox - Help.com

hey where are you gone ?

Hope everything is okay there.

:)

oh also..i cant email you for some reason!! :(

Hey sorry I havnt got back to you..kept meaning to contact but things got hectic recently!! how are u?

Did you not like the way your post has gone?
http://help.com/post/544913-
http://help.com/post/544567-
Also if you dislike something I have said why not shout me.
In all my replies I have not meant harm or abuse, just my opinion on your posts.
As I have offended you I feel it is my place to apologies. So I apologies for your lack of understandind in any of my replies to your and any other post.

You want to contact them, you do it.

The decision stands, end of conversation.

We have made a decision on the matter and the case is closed. Accept it and move on.

You are however allowed to have an opinion on this website, feel free to contact the Administrators of this website if you disagree with the Moderators FINAL decision NOT to delete the reply. The decision is made, it will not be deleted, the matter as far as I am concerned is closed with us Moderators.

Dani- Moderator

The reply that you are referring to is not in breach of our TOU and therefore will not be removed.

Thank you!

-Puck
Moderator

I add to my request, in addition to the user’s reply being deleted, and site administrators being informed of all of this, that your status as site moderator be revoked due to negligence to adhere to TOU.

You would think so wouldn’t you? But in general we do not have any contact with site administrators. If you wish to contact an administrator you should speak to one of the other moderators.

As far as I am concerned the reply will remain. That is all I haver to say on the matter at this time.

Thank you.

We have no contact with the site administrators, so good luck with that.

The user has violated Terms of Use per item 9. Since you are incapable of adhering to the website’s Terms of Use, I request that you forward all of this to the site administrators.

No.

Hello.

I received the report you made pertaining to this post:
http://help.com/post/544567

I will not delete the reply as it does not violate any rules of this website. I will also not delete the post itself for the same reason.

You have been told already that moderators do not delete on request and you have even been given grace on one occasion. Not liking what a user has to say is not grounds for wanting their comment deleted.

Please refrain from making reports again unless you are reporting a post or reply which violates the TOU.

Thank you.

fractal.scatter - Moderator.

You are funny :)I am pleased you like the Elven Immortal Hints :) I often read them again and again just to remind me to keep things in perspective. Oh how easily we lose sight of reality, do you not agree?

Thanks for the message.
It’s done.

That is indeed strange. I guess its best to ask a moderator, sorry I couldn’t be more helpful :(

yeah…there are good factors and negative ones to Help.com
Sometimes, dealing with the serious posts about cutting or ending a life can really take a toll on the long time helpers.
I’ve HAD to take a couple of breaks recently.
It can really get to you…
But then there are the totally goofy posts that show up…I NEED A HUG…NOW…lol…
Well you just give ‘em a cyber hug, and move to the next one…lol
I hope that you’ll like it here and stay.
I think that your input would be really helpful…you sound very experienced in life, and that is what this place is allll about…:)

A friend of mine sent it to me…
Hmm..just earlier this week.
I go through alot of avatars, lol.
Love to change ‘em….alot.
Yeah this site DOES have it’s snafus, thats a given…LOL
Oh and the latest one is where people cannot even get logged onto the site.
:O
I stay logged in here so that I can avoid that problem.
How long have you been a part of the Help.com family?

Nice to meet you finally too!
I like your icon…
I see that thing alot when I’m online…
My wifi is slow, and it just goes round and round…LOL…but it amuses me too…
Anyway…Hello new Friend! :)

Hello Someone on This Site…:)
This is Someone ELSE on this Site…lol
Actually I am Cara, and I wanted to thank you for your add…
Shout me any time…
I’ve seen you around and like the way you say things…:)
Hope to catch ya in the posts soon…
–Cara

Hi Someone on this site, Im not sure if this will help with your question:

“Speaking of the “Help me with:” reply signatures, I created a new post - “How would you create world peace?” but my “Help me with:” still shows my previous post about CISPA. Any idea why it hasn’t changed to the new post? “

I think you need to close the CISPA post first and that might do it. I could be wrong but it would seem feasible.

Hi there.

I received some reports from you about your reply. As you are already aware moderators do not generally delete replies and posts upon request. Just this once I have deleted the reply you requested. I understand users’ frustration when anonymous posting goes wrong but it is their responsibility to ensure they post correctly as wished.

fractal.scatter - Moderator

thank you yeah i feel really alone., its like i dont know how to be single anymore

thank you for your shout, i am just sad and confused right now.

hey thank you for this message. yeah theres been stuff going on lately in my life, like crazy. some people say i should just remain single. im not sure what to do really.

Sometimes it is just something that you have said un-anon that you then said anon. Also your anonicon is tied to your ip and after a while (if people are paying attn) they can figure out who has what anonicon and know when that user is posting anonymous. Most the time users don’t know who the anon user is. But sometimes a user will figure it out. As far as avoiding it from happening again? Either consistenly post anon or consistently post un-anon. That’s really the only way to avoid it from happening again.

Sorry I couldn’t be of more help. :/

We have received your report but there’s two things that I think you must know:

1) the user you reported isn’t a mod. He’s just a user who happened to piece together who you were based on your previous postings and replies.

And

2) Moderators do NOT delete posts upon request. I will delete that users reply b/c it was inappropiate for him to call you out like that. However, the post itself will remain.

Sorry for any inconvenience this may pose to you.

I hope you have a good rest of the day.

-Puck
Moderator

hi, sorry i am not completely up to scratch with this site, it still confuses me a little… how do i accept your friendship offer?

Thanks for your offer to listen, since your here - here is my dilemma…

I have a best friend, who has a brother. I have known him (the brother) for years but we were just mates - he was sorta always on the outer, me and my best friend used to run a muck and were always having fun and getting into mischief, i guess he was always there sort of watching but always had his own life, own friends. About 2 years ago i got the feeling he liked me, i have always had a soft spot for him, i know he is in a bit of a mess at the moment but its just that stage of life - we’re early 20’s, responsibility is starting to weave its way into our lives but we still crave freedom and hate the throught of settling down etc etc … he used to really piss me off though, he would text me and lead me on to think he was interested - and then dissappear - like he was mad or I got too clingy or thought I was going to reject him or something(i am the least clingy girl in the world - trust me…if i have a problem it is that i am too independant and apparently play ‘hard to get’… i guess im just protective of my feelings). Last week he text me out of the blue - i seriously havent talked to him for about a year or more?? He wanted to catch up for a drink…so we did after work. A drink turned into 4 and a super sweet night just talking – or not talking, paying people out, pool…followed by a sit under the stars at the beach after the bar had closed for about 3 hours when he gave me his jacket when I was cold…talked/not talked/gazed at the stars…awkward ‘what is the other thinking/wanting’ kind of time wasting…

Sorry if this is confusing you.
He is a guy that I will always love, he isnt perfect but I just like him. We have nothing in common but he probably knows me best out of any guy I know – I have never tried to please him in any shape or form, he has seen me at my messiest…and I have seen him in his.

When I dropped him home he said ’so when are we seeing each other again’… and we aggreed on a time. In two days. So the day came – I was really looking forward to it,… and I text him asking him if we are still on, no reply. I get a message later saying he fell asleep… and a few texts asking me where I was and how my night was – which I responded to. I didnt get to see him though.

The next night I text him, but no reply.
Then today I text him asking if he was still keen for what we planned the day he fell assleep..no reply.

Once again, he is leading me on. I dont know how much more I can take, I am sick of being led on, and I keep giving him chances but he is fooling with me. Or is he??

One more thing is he has a girlfriend.. I have known him before he met her and to tell you the truth I know he is being controlled by her. She has torn him away from his family (who are the lovliest people) and is so controlling it is sad. She has changed him so much.

So there is my dilemma…I don’t know what to do. I have never been in a serious relationship but have always had great friends that were guys. He used to be one of them – but as a friend I dont think I deserve to be treated this way…

FYI nothing physical happened or anything…he gave me a hug but thats it.

Sorry for the long winded problem of mine….