phoenix.j.ryde's reply history at Help.com

is that a statement or a question? i’m not getting it…

no it’s not hopeless. if you think your life suck, here’s mine:

i’m 32, i have NO friends at all. i have not been on a date for the past one year. everybody that i got in-touch online only wants to sleep with me (it’s not just the US that’s having drought right now :p). the fact that i work from home and don’t go out and socialize a lot does not help. to top that, i have asperger’s syndrome (high functioning autism) which makes things even more difficult.

yeah i’ve been depressed and all but i think there’s still hope. just don’t give up. i’m not.

[quote Anonymous]Yes, i am doing a survey. It’s research. When i have concluded i shall make the decision on whether to clean my floors or not.[/quote]

i think it’s pretty simple - if it’s dirty, clean it. if you’re ill and aren’t able to do so, get someone to help.

[quote southern_comfort, IP]His fiance is pregnant, 5 months to be exact. They are having a boy.
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darn it! lol :P

none of the above. it’s still under construction :P

the again i will have a housekeeper to come and clean twice a week once it’s done.

[quote *Fairytale*]that’s inserting,where do you wanna date him?[/quote]

nah, i mean i wish i could… :P. he’s hot and he’s BRILLIANT! and to me brilliant trumps is hot! so he’s extra hot. but that’s just me.

then again i don’t think he swings my way so haha, just a wishful thinking…

i think the best thing you can do right now is to be her soft place to land. i don’t think you should push her to tell something she’s not comfortable (or allowed) telling. when the time comes and she’s ready, i’m sure she’ll open to you.

i’ve never in my life use IE. i used to use FireFox but they’re having some issues with their latest version and updates so i switched to chrome. been using it ever since. to me it’s way better than IE.

i listen to t-mills (rap/hip hop/r&b), all time low (punk/alternative). but they’re not that new. this are other than eminem and linkin park. oh and another one, johnny strat is pretty good as well.

[quote Anonymous]hey, i see your a fan of eminem? so am i.[/quote]

yeah i am. as weird as it sounds i’m kinda able to relate to his song. downside is that people tend to not to take me seriously or perceive me of having ‘low intellectual level’ but i don’t really care about them.

man i used to be just like you. it costs me a lot and i’ve lost a lot because of this. i knew somehow i need to stop doing this and learn to be a bit more selfish. good think i am seeing a psychiatrist and a clinical psychologist that kinda helps me in that department. well originally it was for my asperger’s but yeah, it kinda some of the traits that i have.

try seeing a professional if you can so you can dig up why this is happening and stuff. slowly you will be able to kinda reduce it.

[quote hopelikefire4]Dudette, actually :) But thank you so much! I don’t know much about you but I’m sure you’re pretty awesome yourself, heck you help out random strangers just because you can, that’s pretty darn cool :D

Thing is, as fantastically cool(and humble :P) as I am, I could be WAY cooler. So I’m gonna make it happen! :)[/quote]

hey dude, dudette, whatever… you’re still cool… yeah, be cool stay cool!

[quote hopelikefire4]Oh I wrote out a whole list! I want to eat better, go running/work out on a regular basis, take up better personal hygiene, write in a journal regularly. There’s other stuff that will be harder to remind myself of or do on a regular, planned basis, but the calendar can help with some of it.[/quote]

good for you! for all it’s worth i think you’re an awesome dude. i mean, you love animals, you do parkour and i’m pretty sure you’re in quite a good shape. i think you’re cool…

[quote hopelikefire4]Also, I just found a planner in my room, a little pocket calendar thing I can carry around with a to do list in it for each day. Maybe having that reminder of what I’m s’posed to be doing will help.[/quote]

what kinda things would you wanna remind yourself about?

[quote hopelikefire4]First and foremost, parkour! The art/sport/discipline of getting from point A to point B as quickly and efficiently as possible. It’s a hobby that’s become a way of life and I love it more than anything else :)

I like to make friends. I like talking to people, getting close to people, just enjoying the company of others. I lied above, I think I love people and parkour equally :)

I like climbing trees, trying new things and exploring new places, and dancing, and being silly, and having fun :D

As you can see, I don’t exactly have a lot of passions that are of much use to the rest of the world. But I’ve decided to forget about that for the time being. Because of what I find I enjoy, I’m working on being less shy and more sociable, getting into a proper workout routine and eating healthy, and trying to get over fears of being silly in public or trying risky new things. But I’m letting old habits get in the way of the things I really want to do.[/quote]

cool… if you live in NYC you could be one of those delivery bikers, cycling around city. that would be cool…