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yeah, start with simple acoustic guitar first.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOqONN…

happy birthday…

just realized my reply is not for this post - ignore them please. my mistake :P

dude, i was just like you once - an IT consultant. worked for 6 yrs finally cracked. left everything behind and roam the world (maybe not the world) with whatever that i have left and enjoyed myself. came home broke and worked with my brother in our own company doing interior design and 3D modelling.

i had some pretty rough time out there, even slept on the streets once. but i gotta tell ya - it’s all worth the experience. you ain’t gonna get the same experience doing 9-5 jobs. but that’s just me…

just wanna say you’re not alone in this world…

no offense but you’re not mature enough to understand boys, let alone love. your brain have not even fully developed yet (it stops developing when you’re 25). so if i were you, i’ll be very much careful in making decisions love wise. i don’t want you to get hurt and get scarred for life, there’s a whole life ahead of you and i don’t want you to ruin it just because of love.

as for your problem with him, i’d say forget about him and concentrate on getting yourself through high-school, then college. boys can come later. besides, he’s too old for you and you’re too young for love.

i am lonely as well, i have no friends - none at all and being an Aspie does not help a bit in the social/friendship/relationship department.

most people think i’m snobish and aloof but unlike neurotypicals, it is not as easy for me to make friends.

now as for, don’t give up hope yet. there must be somebody that you can connect with out there. maybe you just haven’t found them yet. i know i’m still trying, it’s hard but i’m optimistics and so should you.

personally, if you are second guessing yourself then it might not be the right career for you. only you know if you can do it or not.

i do not understand this kind of problem, it baffles me, it baffles me a lot…

i don’t know bout you but i believe that if i have a partner, he shouldn’t dictate my self-esteem. he should love for for who i am and not for what i look like.

your partner has a concern if your gaining weight will somehow affect your health. but if the only concern is looks, it is then questionable motif.

then again, it’s just my thoughts…

enter phone number?

do i have the word ’stooopid’ stamped on my forehead?

life suck ain’t it? whatever you decided to do, my advice is to gather all necessary proof that you have. if you feel that you don’t have much to go with then my advice is not to escalate things and try diplomatic solution - i.e. talk things out.

[quote nefarious]all i can say to that was I wasnt really expecting the new lease to be different? we never talked about it so I dont see why I had to re read a month to month, but surprise it was week to week.[/quote]

well, it is a lesson - always read what you’re about to sign.

well, that is the logic and you can use that argument. like i said, get something solid, logic and make sense as a proof.

not knowing the content so kinda hard to say. however, if you sign it that means you understand and you agree to it. like i said, unless you have someways of proving that the new agreement is invalid or you have been duped or etc. it’s kinda hard to counter something that you have signed in black and white.