rookandpawn's shout trail with lapa - Help.com

Hi Lapa :-) I’m alright. Working pretty hard. Hows things with you?

Hey,

How’s life been treating you?

Cool. did you find my profile?

I can’t wait to read the link in your next shout. I hope it’s about YOU!

But I gotta get back to work now. So I’ll have to wait. Oh the suspense!!! I think I’ll just take a quick look-see!

You abandoned me when i needed you the most. JUST KIDDING! hi lapa ^_^. love you lapa. I signed up for that zaadz.

Hey, remember me?

I’ve been busy lately and had no time for for the internet.

But this week, I got a profile on zaadz.com. I sent you an email invitation.

ohooh no a couple of days..ok im going to have to chin up and be a man

thank you lapa. i dont believe in “the one” but I am so tired for having put so much in. rook goes to space now ^_^

My stupid computer won’t let me email!!! I emailed you from work earlier.

Don’t give up. You learned something. It’s scary to have someone open up so quickly, especially for awoman. Think about humans as the biological animals we are. Ultimately, we are still bound by instincts. Female mammals look for a male that is strong and will provide for her young. Well, unfortunately, we haven’t evolved enough to get past that. When a man is emotionally weak, and the bonds have not yet been formed between man and woman, she senses it as weakness. It is totally unfair, I know.

Listen I won’t be around for a few days. I’m headed to teh woods with my son. so don’t think I’ve forgotten about you. Hang in there. She just wasn’t THE ONE. There are plenty of women out there. Just be patient. And in the meantime work on you relationship with yourself.

I’m having major trouble sending email right now. So I gave up and came here to reply.

You really don’t know her all that well yet and she doesn’t know you. And as much as women say they want a sensitive man, it is sort of shocking to read or see that kind of emotion from a guy, unless it is over the death of a close family member. It’s a societal thing that has been brainwashed into all of us and as unfair as it is, it’s true. After she knows you better, it might be different.

So write her back. And state that you hope she didn’t misread that email. Say you were feeling overwhelmed and you were being dramatic or something. Then immediately change teh subject to focus on her. Ask her about her day. The more specific the question using info she has told you about her hopes, dreams, issues, etc., the better. For instance, maybe she has an irritating boss. You could ask, “So have things gotten any better at work? What has your boss done lately to make himself look stupid?”

This will get her talking about her world.

Then next time you are feeling stressed just write about what’s causing it. Don’t tell her how you are reacting. Hold off on that until you two are actually proclaiming your love for each other.

Check out the anonymous replies on this post again. I saw you had posted something there, so thought yuo might be interested.

My initials first, midddle, maiden, and married last. So now the mystery is gone. And the truth has been revealed: I’m just not that cretive when it comes to naming myself.

My first name is Laurie.

where does the nick/name lapa comes from?
When I think of “Lapa” i think of you as a pokemon that became human. Thats not a bad thing is it? I wouldnt mind if I became one for a while. Lol

Because if I weren’t still alive, you could be the reincarnation of me as a guy, minus the math thing. Ewe! I’m grammar, writing person. :)

I would suggest Wayne Dyer. Although his work isn’t specifically Law of Attraction.
But you can start here: www.creatavision.com/ This is a wonderful woman who writes the free newsletter and she has a free e-book as well. Always uplifting to read her work.

thank you thank you thank you lapa yes im going to go do some math and get a cappucino + read check out any books on what you were saying.. your ability to read me is scary-awesome-powerful. that LACK thing is dead-on. is there a book that talks about that? how do you just know my character??? seriously i was blown away

How’re you feeling?

Maybe if you focus on your degree and your math, you will meet someone that way. Just take your mind off “finding someone.” Does that make sense?

Jsut relax and trust that the right person will come along and that you’ll know her when you meet her.

morning lapa ! ^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^

thank u lapa for your reply :-) :-) i will take your words to heart

hey Lapa check out my post! ^_^
Im not sure if everyone understands but i know you do!

I try. But don’t always succeed. I just know where you’re coming from. So I can talk to yo from experience.

hey lapa thought id give you holla
you’re the cats pajamas!
you must give spread happiness to more and more people !