ooohhhh i have not see you for a long time! Happy New Year to you too! i hope you are doing great with all those unplanned things your friends organized! hehe…so are you having fun!
i miss my rookandpawn! (the greatest panda) LOL
I am sending my Christmas greetings already, just incase I don’t see you here before the big day, I am sure I will but I would rather be safe than sorry!
So….
Hope you have a Fabtastic Christmas and new year!!!
Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I haven’t been online in a couple of days.
You’re right that some people are more mature than other people their age and others are less mature. The biggest problem with relationships where there is a big gap in age is how well the two of you can grow together over the years. I always tell people that you need to really think about where you want to be in 10, 20, 30 years and whether the person you’re with will be maturing at the same rate and will be wanting compatible things. I say compatible and not the same because two people can live with each other and be happy, but have different needs.
by the way rook … I am SUCH a democrat. never would have voted for that thing in office right now … knew he was a problem long before the first time he was voted in.
my son has been telling me of this man … Ron Paul … he is a candidate for pres … check him out and tell me your opinion. If you have time.
I know I should vote … always have, but feeling a bit disgusted and annoyed with the whole thing ….
Yo democrat .. play it cool with this girl. Smile, be friendly and outgoing. She has a boyfriend … just flirt around with her. Make her wonder about you …
Time to intrigue her! Back off, but still look at her and ‘give her the approving eye’. Take on a mysterious posture now … if you run into her at work … say something like, ‘Wow, nice to see you. I would love to talk but I have to run … maybe another time eh?’ That would make her wonder what’s up with you .. why aren’t you taking the opportunity to talk to HER … what is so important? ‘Does he still like me?’
See what I am getting at …
and again … find many other attractive girls and enjoy playing the game. Get comfortable with it and your confidence will grow … it will become more and more fun.
it would be better if she would tell you straight than keep you waiting. but having turned down by her twice are one of the signs my dear rook. what do you think? but of course, as gentleman as you are, one more move from you such as what you just wrote (the two lines) would not hurt.
she is shy type; other girls who know her say she is hesistant to talk to people she dosnt know but isnt too shy. she has a boyfriend i know this but to me, knowing someone, like, i mean, just the way i talk to you or maximina, it doesnt mean it subverts other things like people connect all the time without having to do anything and they get good things from it :-( i put in a letter for your review its one line or two lines in my post pleaz tell me if you think thats okay, i dont have her # i only asked for her email when i saw her in person
oh rook, this girl does not know what she is missing, you are right, if only there some emotional talk between you two then she would be comfortable.
and speaking of the word above, could she be a lil scared to get to be with you bec as you said you seldom see each other at work. Does she have the same culture such as yours? sometimes the way girls act say so much about the place where she is from. (just thinking) and of course, plus the fact that she is seeing someone. for one, she might have not had a chance to say to your invitation. she must be the shy type. or do you think she sees you as someone who is a lil too forward?
but hey, not showing up twice is no joke.
hahahhaah i love avril, i don’t know all her sogns but i like some of them shes cool, i like the song keep holdin on and slipped away, maybe cuz i just learned how to play them on the guitar ;p
thanks, i spend a lot of time at night just thinking and questioning everything, and the influence from one of my friends who has taught me a lot. music is an inspiration and also makes me think and gives me a lot of answers lol. im just happy to help anyone and i just don’t want people to kill themselves because they can’t find happiness, i just want them to wait until their life does turn around. people’s lives can do that but some people just don’t have patients to wait
The general was inspecting the troops during a camouflage excercise. Suddenly he saw a bush jumping around like a maniac, so afterwards he angrily asked for the reason.
The soldier answered: “I was not moving at all, but than I felt two squirrels crawling into my pants’ legs”.
The general: “You are not a sissy! That’s nothing!”
The soldier: “Yes general, I thought so too. But then both of them ran up the legs, to my crotch!”
General: “So what?”
Soldier: “Yes general, I also said that to myself. But when I heard one squirrel asking the other if they should crack them here and now, or save them for the winter - that simply became too much for me!”
Morning Rook!
Yes I’m Swedish. I saw your greeting now, when being two hours overdue to leave work (will do it in some minutes).
I am fine!
How are you?
I think it is good advise. Her man may have some legit feelings, but he’s either playin’ her as you said, or he’s WAY TOO immature, and playing boy games… he might as well punch her in the arm instead of kissing her. Love is blind, and she needs to either get the commitment she is longing for… or let it all go.