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• I still love and want my ex-wife and it’s been
  

  Why exactly did you both divorce? This is the question you have to ask yourself. If you received anger from her in return, then there must have been a pretty valid (or not) reason for the divorce. Either way, after ten years it would seem that she wants another life. I don’t know what happened nor will I make assumptions, but my advice to you is to focus on yourself and other women and do your absolutely best to get her out of your head. As one of the posters commented, get some professional help as well. There’s nothing wrong with you for continuing to think of her. You still love her it would seem, but sometimes the past is the past and the only thing that you two should talk over is your child.
  - written 1 year ago

• I fell in love with my best friend, I told her and now she seems upset with me, what do I do?
  

  It should but unfortunately it doesn’t. Life’s a ***** like that.
  - written 1 year ago

• I fell in love with my best friend, I told her and now she seems upset with me, what do I do?
  

  If she’s a level headed individual, things will just roll themselves out and all will be well
  - written 1 year ago

• I fell in love with my best friend, I told her and now she seems upset with me, what do I do?
  

  Realize that you won’t bring it up?
  - written 1 year ago

• I fell in love with my best friend, I told her and now she seems upset with me, what do I do?
  

  Here’s some advice: Don’t bring it up. If you already told her, I recommend you not bring it up upon your visit and only talk about it if she mentions it. The reason to not bring it up is because you don’t want to push what may have already been set in motion. This could go two ways: It could swim or sink….and we want this to swim so visit her by all means…but don’t mention the crush thing because it might make things awkward.
  - written 1 year ago

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