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• Ex went from being happy in our relationship a month ago, to not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone anymore. posted (1 year) ago
  But after the breakup, he would cry whenever we talked about our relationship and admitted to missin…

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• Ex went from being happy in our relationship a month ago, to not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone anymore.
  

  I guess my best bet then would be to keep my distance for now, but still let him know that if he needs anything, I’m still here?
  Obviously I can’t approach him right now; I’ll probably get screamed at again. Blech.
  It’s definitely not good for me anymore to be putting all my energy into one person. I need to concentrate more on my life, I always knew. I just wish I could of realized it sooner. Thank you. :)
  - written 1 year ago

• Ex went from being happy in our relationship a month ago, to not wanting to be in a relationship with anyone anymore.
  

  He DOES have mental problems. Problems he can’t seek help for because he’s going into the marines soon, and will only be able to get help once he’s in. Which would be months from now. :/
  I know he’s no good, now. He’s literally a stranger to me. He’s in no way shape or form the same person I fell in love with, but just knowing that the good part of him is still in there somewhere makes me feel bad for abandoning him.
  He says he wants to be alone, but he always acted the opposite. . .that’s why this situation is a lot more complicated than it should be. Unfortunately.
  - written 1 year ago

• my boyfriend and I ended our almost 4 year relationship a little over 2 weeks ago.
  

  [quote herbalist]Could be. Some men are cold.[/quote]He’s admitted to being cold.
  When you keep being called something through most of your life you begin to either believe it or turn into it.
  - written 1 year ago

• my boyfriend and I ended our almost 4 year relationship a little over 2 weeks ago.
  

  [quote herbalist]Yes. I think men are good at shutting thier emotions off. Its hard for him too, but in a different way[/quote]
  
  That’s what I always thought. So it’s not that he killed them, he just doesnt want to acknowledge them so it’s easier for him to cope?
  Sigh.
  Thank you thoughh. I appreciate your help more than you can imagine.
  - written 1 year ago

• my boyfriend and I ended our almost 4 year relationship a little over 2 weeks ago.
  

  Also, it seems to me that he’s handling the break up a lot better, even to the point where he’s pretty much acting like it never happened.
  Is this a coping mechanism guys usually use? Like, they don’t want to show they’re upset so they disregard their feelings and act like nothing is bothering them?
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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