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• I feel invincible for the first time in my life. posted (1 month, 2 weeks) ago
  It’s as if all my insecurites and worries have been crushed by my new self esteem and by me …

• I wrote this to myself when I was sobering up in a nightclub posted (2 months, 1 week) ago
  “Life seems like a blanket that needs to be lifted and like that blanket needs to be there to…

• Life is so beautfiul sometimes it fkn hurts. posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I wish it didn’t but it does sometimes I cry over it, it’s the reminder of everything p…

• I feel really over emotional :( posted (2 months, 2 weeks) ago
  IDK maybe I’m coming on, my boobs are a bit sore, maybe not idk. I feel angry with myself con…

• I am in so much pain with my back I feel like crying posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Why has this had to happen to me I’ve never had back pain in twenty one years WTF -_- I’…

• Thank god I have this website to rant on lol posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Otherwise I’d go mad so yeah here goes the rant; I’ve put on weight, I’m hungove…

• There’s a reason why I don’t come on this website anymore. posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  It’s because certain ppl have the unfortunate habit of jumping down my throat on some of the …

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trentlover20's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) I am afraid of getting old.
  

  20 years is a long time I wouldn’t worry too much lol but I feel the same way tbh another 9 years and I’ll be 30 :(. I think as we get older we expect too much of ourselves and we think we’re supposed to have all these things other people have, a well paid job/career, 3 kids, a wife, a dog, a white picket fence and a freshly cut lawn, BBQs in the summer with boring old farts from next door or you who know from work who can only talk about what holidays they’re going on and what car they’re gonna buy, anniversary celebrations, the debate over what car you’re going to have that defines you as a person, never going out drinking ever again because you’d rather stay in with the missus and watch game shows or talk about how you’re going to build a conservatory, and if you do drink you can’t really let your hair down because she wants you in at a certain time. Seriously the thought of all that makes me want to put a shotgun to my head LOL. But try not to worry too much you’re still young and you have plenty of time to enjoy yourself :) focus on what you really want to do, try travelling a little bit more if you can or want to. Not everybody’s the same and not everybody has to conform to the same kind of lifestyle.
  
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by Doc Ralph, okei!

• (2 votes) What do you want to be when you grow up?
  

  [quote Mariam*]I think I’d like to be wealthy when I grow up.
  
  And content.
  
  Can those two ever go together?[/quote]
  
  IDK they say money can’t always bring you happiness which is true to an extent, but I’d rather cry in on a first class jet going around the world LOL.
  
  - written 7 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Dr. Ozy, Mariam*

• (2 votes) I’ve lost hope.
  

  I feel exactly the same, I’ve been praying as well even though I’m not religious at all I pray every night that things will get better. But the truth is the power is already there you’ve just got to know how to use it to improve the imperfections in your life.
  
  - written 10 months ago – voted for by Positivemessylove, adolphhayden1

• (1 vote) Why is everyone getting married and having kids at such a young age?
  

  Marriage and kids are a distraction for some people or they do it to prove a point to the world and to themselves and so they can say in their own screwed up way say “yeah i made something of myself coz i have a husband and a kid” LOL. I’m 21 and I would much rather wait till I’m in my 30s to get married and have kids I wanna have a life first.
  
  - written 2 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by iyamah

• (1 vote) Is anyone else lonely this time of the year?
  

  Only because I’m single, but I’ve been single every Christmas for 21 years LOL so I’m not arsed.
  
  - written 5 months ago – voted for by Mohit M

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• I feel invincible for the first time in my life.
  

  [quote Anonymous]Yeah! you go girl - happy for you, it’s called growing up and living life My way … yes there will be changes, surprises, heartbreak and defeat. Step over all of it. You’ll be better for it.[/quote]
  
  Thats exactly what I’m gonna do :)
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• I feel invincible for the first time in my life.
  

  [quote emerge]Wow congratulations, it’s great you feel excellent. :)[/quote]
  
  There are still a couple of complications in my life I’m working on of course life is never without it’s problems but I just do not care anymore haha :D
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• Are our struggles in life always about our perceived better future?
  

  We demand perfection that why we have struggles, the minute you stop caring about them and look at them for what they are and how they can be solved life gets so much easier
  - written 1 month, 2 weeks ago

• I wrote this to myself when I was sobering up in a nightclub
  

  [quote manthynothing]Well it seems like you found yourself in a deep place. Time to find out what you want to do with your life now that you’ve seen everything with the blanket uncovered[/quote]
  
  But what if we need that blanket? What if I’m just using it as an excuse to let myself spiral? Thatthe problem I don’t know anymore lol
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

• I wrote this to myself when I was sobering up in a nightclub
  

  [quote fřëëSöülëd]it’s going to be frequent. ponders like these will make you wiser.[/quote]
  
  Thankyou it was just strange everyone else was drinking and dancing and I wrote this on my phone LOL
  - written 2 months, 1 week ago

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