2013-11-19 19:18:45 on UGG I feel like crap :/ The cold season has hit me with a vengeance….
I’m sorry! I know those feelings all too well! Take plenty of medicines, drink lots of fluids, watch your favorite movie two or three times and get a goods night sleep :)
2013-11-02 15:43:18 on What’s the best part of your day so far?
I like mermaids, but I wish I won the Swan Song.
2013-11-02 15:39:26 on What’s the best part of your day so far?
I got an unexpected invitation to hang out with someone who usually finds other things to do.
2013-10-26 16:05:05 on Can a girl be won back once she has lost interest and have moved on?
2013-10-05 14:21:04 on Should I tell my therapist or doctor about past drug use and possible future drug use?
yes - it could make a huge difference. plus it could seriously harm you if you didn’t.
2013-10-04 19:17:20 on .
[quote mindhealer]I think you could change your passive attitude about whether he can hurt you or not. You can become more empowered, you can choose to be less hurtable — either by vanishing, as some previous repliers hinted at, or through other more self-empowered relating tactics. It’s very fatalistic to say you know he’ll hurt you. Although people tend to hurt those close to themselves in small ways, you should decide for yourself to not ever let anyone hurt you in any big ways. You can decide that and then figure out how to make it true.[/quote]
Thank you mindhealer. While this post is pretty old..that still helps. And I think I was pointed in this direction, too..so to hear this kind of backs up my feelings. I do feel more empowered now. I just hate being so passive. It is really my fault.
But, thank you.
2013-10-04 19:15:48 on .
[quote Anonymous]so you are in love with an abuser of women. That is your choice. It is not love, you cannot love him enough to make him never hit you again. It just gets worse and more controlling. He has a serious problem if he abuses and hates women, and you have one too, you let him. Your mother didn’t raise you right. You have no self worth. So go ahead, love him to death.[/quote]
For some reason, this makes me feel better.
Not because I agree with you.
But because I don’t.
2013-07-06 13:37:26 on How to make 4 days go fast?
where are you going?
2013-06-24 18:25:19 on Summer is here!
no storms here, only humidity and heat. it is well into the high 90s. :(
but its a good summer. :)
2013-06-11 15:36:32 on i cant really describe what im feeling.
Hey Awesome girl. I just wanted to let you know the name rings true. That what you are going through is temporary. Maybe you can’t hope for the best now, but just give it time.
2013-06-05 18:47:59 on What gets paint out of carpet?
So i bought some turp stuff but I can’t open it. :(
2013-06-05 18:25:33 on What gets paint out of carpet?
where do I find turpentine?
2013-06-05 18:14:56 on What gets paint out of carpet?
Its acryllic, and it is pretty much as dry as it could possibly be. I think it’s been in the carpet for months….
2013-06-05 06:28:35 on I have a question.
[quote Anonymous]The spiritually dead burrying the mortally dead. The mortally dead were dead because it was beyond their control. The spiritualy dead were so because it
was within their control but did nothing.[/quote]
but why would he say that? thank you for your help so far.
[quote The Sherlockian]Here’s what you also need to understand . . . the “burial” of a loved one took up to a year. The body was placed in a tomb, where it decomposed until only the bones were left. Then the bones were placed in a stone box called an ossuary and placed in the family tomb. So the young man was asking for up to a year to make his final choice.
As Padre said, Jesus was not telling him not to attend the funeral, but was telling him that taking up to a year to make up his mind was too much.[/quote]
this is awesome! thank you sherlockian.
2013-06-05 06:27:20 on The thing inside.
[quote morosemanthy]Thank you :) the thing inside is anything that I possibly don’t like about myself, in this instance it is insecurity. The “You” in the poem is the person who feeds my insecurities by sweetness. By being sweet, the insecurities are fed. I end up hurting the person that is caring for me, they want to run but I have too strong of a hold on them. And Murder, I just want to kill the insecurities because all it does is grow, it consumes me. By the time my insecurities have taken hold, the person can see the ugliness of this thing inside, they become bitter and all of that would have been avoided if the person showed continuous love. The “You” cannot keep up with the needs of the thing inside.
If it doesn’t make sense, that’s also okay. I dont feel I make much sense in most of my writing. This is just a quick representation of what I feel/felt.[/quote]
Now having a little bit more insight…I really really like this. I can relate to it a lot. :)