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Also I grew to trust you because one day a couple years ago I was in so much pain and I mentioned it and you didn’t hurt me, which was such an unusual experience, totally unexpected that someone wouldn’t jump at the chance to exploit a vulnerability.

Thank you.
Even I have difficulties with hair , be it men or women and even more so with anime characters. So may be that’s why I noticed them in your work. Must I add that you are already better at it, since it is so obvious….

Do you prefer digital or traditional methods?

Hey I checked out your works on facebook link. It’s pretty awesome, nothing compared to mine.But I must add that I am curious to know why most of your works or women characters have their locks emphasized. You can ignore this question if you find it trivial or haven’t noticed it yourself. :-)

Oh and I would also love it if you could check out my art page as well. Here’s the link to it : http://www.kavya-ashok.deviantart.com…

It is probably just a contrast to how you feel overly un-nice to yourself.

Similarly, I never thought of you as un-unique.

You’re welcome, and, thank you.

I like your unique use of thought and language.

Hi, please ignore my recent apology. Something is apparently wrong with it. All I meant is I hope you have a nice year.

Hi, please ignore all my recent replies to you. Something is wrong with my replying. All I really meant is that I wish you happiness.

thank you love.i am honored to get you.

thank you, love.now no mess.every thing is positive.thanks.

dear messy ,i had requested you for friends.may i hope positive.love.

i have applied for permanent residence in canada using my nursing certificates and all, lets see what God has planned for me.
yeah life aint so easy, we have to keep it simple to be smiling otherwise complications are just gonna mess with us.

i have applied for my PR for canada, i am just waiting for the embassy to give me an answer, it is taking so longggg…..frustrating!!
i don’t work, used to but not at the moment.
what about your life? how is it gooing?

monday is almost gone, it is evening now….my days are almost the same, i stay at home.

Hi thanks for that.
my day is fine a bit boring though. how are you doing.

Rebecca you are not a weirdo :D It is a normal way of things for feel remorse for wrongs we have done.

Just Tell the person that yo are sorry for your actions. Ask for forgiveness. And if you feel it necessary ask for a penance, for your actions.

If I might be so bold… What is it that you did?

Positivemessylove wrote:
Earning the passage of forgiveness.
In order to proceed with life accordingly…

However I have done some things I would consider…impossible to forgive without retribution. And retribution doesn’t seem like enough.

I guess what I’m asking is how do I get forgiveness, when I do not deserve it?

everyone deserves forgiveness, if they are sorry for the wrong they did.
If you are sorry/repentant for the wrongs you have committed, and ask for forgiveness. You are(God)/should be (by the wronged person) Forgiven.

love your avatar

Hi, thanks for saying “hi” to me. I hope you’re doing okay. I feel like I should mention that I’ve had way too much computers, so if you don’t see me on here it’s because probably need healthier things than pixels and text.

Hi.
I hope you have a good day, bye bye.

Thank you so much! I hope you have a happy valentine’s day, full of love and chocolate.

Thank you.:)

Hello, I wish a happy moment at you.

**wish/wish/wish*

Hopefully it’s not too cold where you are. I think I’m normally pretty forgetful or oblivious, but for the past while I’ve been trying so hard to not be that I think it’s actually starting to work a little.
You can always get them tomorrow. :)

You don’t need a reason to shout me, but asking how I was seemed like a nice reason to me.

Lol like walking into a room to get something and forgetting why you’re there, I do that all the time. Anyways, have a nice day at work chatting up the old folks :)

It’s basically like customer service with a lot of paperwork and packages, a pretty good deal for now. What is your job like?

Hello :) I’m good, I just came back from work, and soon I will be able to do my laundry and shower and I’m happy right now and how are you?

Any time :)

Being with someone who does not share your beliefs should not require you to change the way you live your life… at least not any more than being with anyone.

If he loves and respects you then he would not ask you to change your beliefs for him.

In a way it is good to be with someone who does not share your faith. Use this situation as a test of your faith.

And remember God is forgiving. If you have done things that you are not proud of, or sinned against God. Ask forgiveness, repent, and change the way you act. Be YOU. Be who you want to be.

What confuses you? I’ll try and help :)

I’ve known many people who were/are Christian, and dated/married a non Christian. However they stopped going to church because their signifigant other didn’t go, then they stopped praying before meals, because of their partner. Etc.

Stick to your beliefs.

IMO yes. However in being with them you cannot waver from the Christian beliefs.
There are universal truths included in all religions. Use those as common ground.
But most importantly ’stay’ Christian :)

Of course :D

Do you want to talk about that?

I’m not in a talking mood at all, I mean that I am the enemy of computers and I don’t want to type and look at a little screen. But I felt uncomfortable in how I didn’t even reply at all to you when you said ” of course I admire, respect, love, etc”. But it’s more than just you, I stopped every online conversation (for example, notably, every place that verge and I have those endless discussions), but I did discover one clue, that I was working toward “understanding”, and that at in the depths of interactions with you there was a claim to not understand anything. So I decided that in the realms of helpfulness (related to the realms of love but different), some helpfulnesses have moved me to focus completely on understanding. Like, “What would you say about your life from the perspective of an afterlife? How would you understand your life”, but also how can I best understand right now and the future and everything. Kind of vague topic, but I’m got the word I’m interested in clearly separated out from the rest of the dictionary, “understand”.

I’m going to go, have a nice day. :)

I would like to believe that as a human being, I am doing my duty to really care for and love and help everyone else I can possible meet. I would like more than anything for everyone else to do that too.
And I feel like you are that person. Helpful isn’t a strong enough word for what you do..

I think I’m really connecting with what you’re saying, although I have almost no idea what you’re really talking about and just a little bit of it, but I’m not sure if the connection I feel is because I get it or because I am in a very open and vulnerable position myself, and I may just be expressing some kind of emotional whiplash from everything that’s happened to me in the past few months. Either way, I’m really glad you told me this. And I like this story and I hope it isn’t the end because I really like you and i think you are a nice person.

Anyway, I hope you find understanding in your life. Do you want to talk about that? Or is that just something you prefer to not talk about?

Sorry for such a long pointless story. Here’s some music: http://help.com/post/573810-yearly-ch…

Sometime in the past few days I switched from everything else I was doing to seeking understanding of my life. That’s it, it’s all I think, “God, help me understand my life.” I’m not even close to the point where I can even think that thought in a truly meaningful way, although it is somewhat more than mere words or sounds put together.

As I looked back over my days, trying to figure out why I dropped every other activity I was so firmly committed to every day this year, in favor of praying for understanding my life, I noticed a few days of being really conscious of you, and toward the beginning of it, me saying on a post about scorpion pits, “I can’t stop laughing now. I’m not sure I understand anything. But I do like your solution.” And that saying was at a very vulnerable state of being and mind. So I feel like as I told you I didn’t understand anything, and and then kept talking with you trustingly, like we do care and love and help each other, like that’s our secret intent no matter how pointless the words and ideas are, somehow my motivations were changed so that I will overcome the initial problem I mentioned, of not understanding anything. I won’t be able to help it, I’ll have to understand everything if this is all I can think about now. I don’t even know if I said any of this right, the only thought that really makes any sense to me is, “God, help me understand my life.”

And that’s supposed to be the story of how you affect me more than one might expect.

I want to tell you about how I decided that you have an affect on me. I assume it is positive, or messy, or lovely, but there’s a specific thing that really stands out beyond all the “helpfulnesses” or kind and affectionate interactions. So can I tell you about it?

It means that I’ve chosen for unknown reasons to accept you as someone who can really affect me.

you wrote:
As nice as that sounds, all I want right now is to be fed and healed. You can have all the other stuff. I appreciate you, respect you, honor and value you, admire and care for you. And of course love you and love how helpful you are.

I think that overwhelmed my response mechanism or it turned me into a different person. Or I finally ripped myself away from the computers. Either way, I stopped talking to anyone online, that’s probably a good thing because electromagnetic radiation is only good in small doses.

Wow I didn’t even see it until you shouted me. Her boyfriend is a stalker because he calls her and asks her where she is and what she is doing? I do that to my wife twice a day, or she calls me and asks the same questions. I thought it was part of sharing your life with someone.

Well deserved rant… you know I went back for more. ;)

Okay, thanks. I wish for you to be loved and appreciated and respected and honored and valued and admired and cared for and entertained and fed and pleased and healed.

Oh yeah, well then I wish you a happy minute, a happy hour, a happy walk, a happy friendship, a happy family, a happy career, a happy moment, a happy life, and a happy set of circumstances.

Pascal makes me want to have a pet chameleon :P

Your avatar is boss XD Tangled is such a cute movie!!!

You like that idea? I like it.

I’m more smiley after saying a random compliment to you.

I’m fine thanks.

Hi, I like you and you have really pretty flowers.