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• When your mother leaves? posted (8 months, 1 week) ago
  I feel like I should be freaking out and having some kind of meltdown but I just don’t know h…

• What’s the point of life? posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Literally. I get an idea and follow it and I feel great. Then all of a sudden I find myself feeling…

• Pictures. posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Sooo, ever since that “post your real avatar” question I’ve been curious. And extr…

• Best places to go in the summertime? posted (9 months, 2 weeks) ago
  I was practically begging for summer then it came and I spent the majority of it at home! Any ideas…

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seasonsoflove7's Top (2) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) How do you forgive yourself for making a huge mistake that still haunts you every day?
  

  Stop letting it haunt you everyday. To let something or someone bother you to that extent is to be a victim. Stop playing the victim role and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You made a mistake, you are human. Forget it and move on and start over. We are given a new chance everyday when we wake up, why bring your ghosts with you to the next day?
  It’s an ego trick. But on the other side, the opposite of being arrogant. You have to believe that you deserve forgiveness and that it is ok for you to make a mistake. Because it is. Then you let it go and work on not bringing it back up.
  
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by verge

• (1 vote) Does “The Secret” really work !
  

  You seem to have the right mindset so good job that’s the right step. However, no one can convince you but yourself. Do you want it to work? Then it will. That’s basically what the principles of the secret are all about lol
  Have you seen the actual secret DVD? It’s on youtube, the full thing. There’s also a more detailed book.
  Personally, it makes sense to me and it has helped get through some tough times. I’m still trying to figure out how it works and I often read books and articles on the Law of Attraction. Don’t expect magic though, at the end of the day the people who came up with The Secret need to make money too ;P I don’t believe in “realistic” because so many things are possible, many of which we’ve never even seen in person! Saying something is not realistic without earnestly finding out about it and trying it at least once is pure laziness in my opinion.
  I could help you with any specific questions you have but I’m not a salesman and that’s not what you should be looking for anyway, you make it work for you.
  
  - written 9 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by reijithedeathstinge

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• Do you feel loved?
  

  I try to feel grateful to avoid answering questions like these. I’ve been told that I should feel like I have people around me that care but most times I feel otherwise.
  - written 6 months, 2 weeks ago

• When your mother leaves?
  

  They haven’t been together since I was born. There was no marriage involved.
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

• When your mother leaves?
  

  I truly hope so. Everybody is trying so hard to advise her to move on, even me, and get herself together. It was so hard to see growing up. I love her to death but she has such a difficult personality.
  I dont know where she lives, she moved I think. I think I mentioned that she isnt picking up any of my calls. What can someone do in this situation? I’m so drained. Everything is always about her, she is always the victim. I understand that she has hardships and this can’t be easy on her but what? I tried so hard to be there for her when all of this stuff with my dad went down. It was just as much of a surprise to me as it was to her.
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

• When your mother leaves?
  

  [quote The Sherlockian]Your mother feels that you have thrown in your lot with your father and his new wife. To her, it’s a betrayal.
  
  Why did you not live with your mother?[/quote]
  
  I never chose to move in with my dad. He wanted it so as always that’s what happened. She was never “stable” enough for me to live with apparently, always moving and always changing jobs, not keeping up with bills, etc. She never really gave a reason why but if she didn’t like how she felt people treated her at a job or if someone said anything to her she would quit. I never wanted to be here. My dad seems to think that this whole “one happy family” thing is just gonna pan out, just chuck everyone into the same house. I don’t know what to do, I hate it here so much.
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

• When your mother leaves?
  

  Thoughts are welcome ;P
  - written 8 months, 1 week ago

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