finescrewi's reply history at Help.com

first step.. Don’t say this baby,.. It’s HIS baby

Don’t be scared hun. Tell someone before it happens again and it can stop. This is all on him and nothing will happen to you if ou tell. If you don’t, well then you know what will happen.. again..

Happy birthday :) Lots of love

You dream about stuff that you have thought about during the day or over some time. At least that’s my theory, and how I experience things. and I think it sounds like a he’s hitting on you :)

He asked you to marry him, so he loves YOU and want to be with YOU..
I wouldn’t be to worried about him.. He needs to talk to other people, males and females.. So why not though the internet? I don’t see anything wrong it.. If he starts to hang out with them more than once or twice then I would start to worry, or at least have open eyes :)

And it obviously bothers you??

The easiest way for you to get the truth and see what he’s thinking is by asking him.
You are ready to get married and you obviously really want it, but why rush it? It is a big commitment and maybe he isn’t ready for that or the thought scares him. He will come around eventually just give him some time don’t push it.
A lady I know got married a couple of years ago. She loved her husband very much but he didn’t want any kids, it was hard for her since she always had wanted kids but she was patient and believed that he would come around. And she was right.. The day today (six years later) they have two beautiful kids and are happily married.

Okay, now I feel bad :p

22-25

Yes they should. I watched The Notebook, got a coffee from Starbucks and went to bed. haha :p

[quote Mikky]they should[/quote]

I see you as a strong person. It takes a lot for many people to leave abusive relationships because of fear. You are going to do good out there.

[quote lairmct]True true… it feels good to have someone say something that sees what I am doing as a positive step rather than the anger I am hearing from the person I am leaving who is speaking in a way that is negative about this choice.

Thanks![/quote]

I think that you should go to the party. Have a coupe of beers and just enjoy it.

Try us

[quote Anonymous]Ive concidered calling the national suicide prevention line before just to talk to somebody cuz i was getting sick cuz of bottling everyting is but i just dont want then to think i wanna commit suicide.. i just need someeone to talk to, take a load off, get some advice[/quote]

You could also try this one. I just found it, don’t know if it good or anything but check it out..
http://www.echristiancounseling.org/

[quote finescrewi]Yeah I know what you mean… Well lets google a bit and see if we can find some therapists online :)

[quote Anonymous]and everytime i seem to try to get advice on here, people become rude.. and its hard to talk to a bunch of ppl .. because eveyone has their own opinion i just need help and i just feel crazy sometimes[/quote][/quote]

Yeah I know what you mean… Well lets google a bit and see if we can find some therapists online :)

[quote Anonymous]and everytime i seem to try to get advice on here, people become rude.. and its hard to talk to a bunch of ppl .. because eveyone has their own opinion i just need help and i just feel crazy sometimes[/quote]