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• I got bullied by my ex husband for almost 20 years I took care of him made money for all of us fed him and the kids got abused by him emotionally finally posted (8 months) ago
  got bullied by my ex husband for almost 20 years I took care of him made money for all of us fed hi…

• I can,t get over my ex husband when he sends me apologizing massages it melts my heart and I want to forget all the mean things he did to me I have a 3 posted (8 months, 3 weeks) ago
  can,t get over my ex husband when he sends me apologizing massages it melts my heart and I want to …

• My ex husband was very abusive never cared and respected me very controling never provided us i earn the money and got tired of his temper and got rid posted (9 months) ago
  ex husband was very abusive never cared and respected me very controling never provided us i earn t…

• How to make my 18 year old daughter come home early in the night she is a black belt and just turn 18 she thinks she is old enough and can take care of posted (9 months) ago
  to make my 18 year old daughter come home early in the night she is a black belt and just turn 18 s…

• I just got separated from my husband after 19 years of marriage he did not wanted to share me with my parents and siblings was very controlling had a bad posted (9 months) ago
  just got separated from my husband after 19 years of marriage he did not wanted to share me with my…

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• Please tell me how to stop being afraid.
  

  Pray to God it helps believe that God will be with you all this time and he is most powerful and most merciful in the universe. or if you have any one in the home you should go sleep in their room tonight and if you get scared so fast don,t listen to these scary stories.
  - written 8 months ago

• I got bullied by my ex husband for almost 20 years
  

  He is so mean he drinks and slam doors scream and shout does not want me to see my parents hate my family.
  does not let me make decisions always talk bad about me behind my back,breaks dishes etc my kids are sick of his tantrum he does not provide us very lazy.
  He says he loves me but he never cares about me if I cry he says don,t make pity of your self. he loves fighting and getting angry I am opposite of it and thats why he ruled my life like a dictator but he is the first and only man in my life and thats why its hard to get over him.
  - written 8 months ago

• I’m in severe pain!
  

  I agree with miss appers I used the same medicine but make sure you eat some thing with that or it will make you shaky those are dark brown pills work very good drink plenty of water. get well soon.
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago

• I just got separated from my husband after 19 years
  

  Thanks alot ritu You can not imagine How much your magical words meant to me You really made me feel much better about my situation you are right every one has a right to live happy and with respect even though I loved my ex sooo much but now it will be easy to get over him since most of the love was one sided by me. He never gave me the respect and love I deserve and I still learn to live happy but than he ruined the piece of our home by drinking and getting violent I hope I will find some one who will really love me and encourage my qualities instead of taunting me that I married him for green card and put me down so I will not ask him to look for work or stop being a bum.
  God bless you Ritu can I be your friend on help .com and than latter on Face book?
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago

• I just got separated from my husband after 19 years
  

  Thanks soo much Ritu I am still not sure what to do. should I take him back or what? I misses him even though he was mean and selfish but I truly honestly loved him soo much but he did soo much bad that i will be stupid if I take him back but when I think about complete the divorce process in five months I feel like i will die because of sadness.
  - written 8 months, 2 weeks ago

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