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no..doesn’t sound like a good friend at all..
I can’t bring myself dislike her though…just be angry. Don’t know what I’ll do without her.

I hope I can do that.. I don’t want to upset her by distancing myself..I just want to have guy friends without her immediately fancying them..and she keeps acting like I’ve done something awful and she’s all innocent too. If she’d just apologise and act like a real friend I’d forgive her immediately (probably).

Thanks for your advice guys..uh..girls?

[quote ☆MoNiCa☆]i know what u mean…
maybe since ur such good friends, u’ll be able to accept that she’s a flirt, and just deal with it :)
i have a friend like that… we hung out ALL the time… but when boys came along, she was such a flirt!! and always flirted w/guys that i liked, that she knew i liked!! as if she did it on purpose! (which i’ll never know for sure!) but for me, it got to be too much, and i started hanging around w/other ppl who were more relaxed, like me.
i just wanted to tell u that i know what u mean, and it can be frustrating!! but when u have a bf, it might be even more frustrating having her as a friend…[/quote]

Yeah…that’s another thing that bothers me about her actually…
if I like a guy, she’ll either start liking him too or criticise me for liking him. I’m glad I’m not alone in this.

And amazed at how decent HE was.

So.. it would be best to try and distance myself a bit?

[quote ☆MoNiCa☆]it might be hard to always be hanging around with someone like this girl… maybe she’s not the best friend for u?? remember, people have a hard time changing, so she’ll probably always be like that.[/quote]

it is quite hard.. we’ve been friends for so long..that’s why I’m so confused.

I didn’t try to control her strangely enough.. she reacted instantly, like she knew I’d be unhappy about it.

He said he cares more about my friendship than a “robotic romance” as he called it. I told him he can do what he wants, I don’t think it’s my place to tell them what to do, just to explain my own feelings.

I don’t know whether to keep being friends with her though, I feel uncomfortable and angry and jealous. Mostly angry at her reaction though, it made me feel she really didn’t care about me at all.

I did sit her down and tell her… that’s when she said she’d talk to him no matter what.. that’s what hurt…she always said how much she cared about me, but when I explained to her how uncomfortable I felt with it, she just said it didn’t matter.

I’m really glad he said that, even though it wasn’t something I would have suggested.. I just wanted them both to understand the position they’d put me in.. and those were their two reactions.

I don’t have a clue as to why it bothers me so much to be honest. I mean, I don’t think I still have a crush on him.. maybe I’m just selfish and want them both to myself.. I hope not!

Personally, I think it’s okay..
probably frowned upon, but it’s not really that creepy.
Like dlkj said, you might want to talk to your dad first..

No, when I was younger (like…way WAY younger), I could chew it fine…though I did end up swallowing it almost every time..

O.O I hand’t thought of that…
I’ll try it!
…later…when I’m not lazy…
thanks!

readalot…yeah, it’s really strong..I don’t want to look like a cow! I kind of just want the choice! And I guess it’d keep me entertained for a while..and I just want to be able to chew gum!

willard… eek…I still have my tonsils…but that sounds icky..

lol! great idea…the hitting one..
I just wanted to know why it has that effect on me..lol
thank you

yep, various types of mint, cherry, strawberry, and a couple more.

for me, I’d say B.

I remember you too! It’s been ages!
*superhugs* HI!!!