:( We are no longer help friends. Even though I have not been around, it still is very sad to find you not on my friends list anymore!! I hope all is well!
mmmm I like that; “an adventurous New Year” I’m confident joy and happiness will be there… now I must keep an eye open for adventure; that will be amazingly fun :)
Thank you for your wonderful greeting, my wish is the same for you and yours :)
Bright blessings ~Richard
It only takes the light from one candle to chase darkness away. Thank you for being that light in my life.
Bright blessings and Merry Christmas ~ Richard
I have been sited by the moderation team for advertising in my posts. At first I didn’t know what they were talking about… and even now I only assume what they are talking about because they never told me HOW I was advertising… I feel I have never advertised my site. I direct people to my site for more information regarding my book (that I GIVE AWAY) and for my email address which is how they can claim the book… and I to that only in replies… not my posts. Then I realized that my last 3 posts had at the bottom of them a small banner with my business name on it. I still don’t really see it as advertising my site, especially when others have entire posts asking people to “come to my new help site”. Anyway, I don’t see how the mod staff picked up on this small thing unless someone full of spite toward me, complained about it. The mod team is mostly reactive (rarely proactive).
I am beyond tired of trying to be a positive motivational source on a site that barely seems to appreciate it. I think the shout trail with Ditzy is still here. I don’t hold anything again against the mods really… they are just doing a very difficult job. Bottom line I’m tired of trying to make a difference only to be leased like a dog at every corner. Personally I thought my last few posts were not only motivational, but graphically interesting to look at. But no… somehow I was advertising… and in truth advertising is not even against rules here, if the service or product is appropriate for help… and what could be more than a Life Coach website? >>>> I’m tired of all the crap while trying to be a positive influence. I don’t need it in my life… and clearly this site doesn’t need me.
Mari ~ it is my pleasure to be able to help you connect the dots… but they are your dots, and you did whatever work you needed to connect them - be proud of your work :) Yes, guilt is common but we must keep it in perspective. Guilt normally means that we did something wrong. I see no wrong in you, not in this case. We judge ourself so severely… it’s rarely necessary. All that said I know you to be a wise woman, and all will be fine for you in the end. Bright blessing dear… forever my best to you and yours :) ~ Richard
You are so right about the guilt. Although I am not Catholic anymore, I think that guilt is always part of you! As always your kind and wise words mean so much! You are such an inspirational person!
Mari
I would love to share my work with you… just email me at richhills1 @sbcglobal .net and I’ll send you a free e-copy ASAP :)
~Richard
but you have to promise to not let the school teacher in you correct my grammer :) lol… j/k ;)