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• (3 votes)
  

  OK OK…
  This is a very bad situation.
  True, both sides have hurled some insults back and forth.
  Now…
  Can you both just go to your neutral corners and not say any more???
  I mean the “smelly” post was hideous…REALLY a blast below the belt.
  So, just go on about your business…but do NOT say anymore to each other.
  Not until it can be something like “I’m sorry I said that”….
  I am not putting blame anywhere…its not my place.
  You both just need a time out…thats all.
  Its getting wayyyy too wicked, that much I can see.
  Please don’t go on and on and say something so awful that you will REALLY regret it.
  Time out…ok????
  Holy smoke… I thought that I had a bad temper.
  After this…lol…I look like a saint….
  Really…
  TWO DIFFERENT CORNERS, PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  - written 8 months ago – voted for by verge, babacup

• (2 votes) I hate him!
  

  Its really interesting how many times I’ve replied to a post saying the exact same thing. :/
  If you boyfriend/ex is making you this unhappy, please just walk away.
  And do NOT look back for any reason.
  He is your EX for a reason.
  Omigosh…there are so many sweet lovable men out here!!!!
  No woman needs to be kicked around and belittled constantly.
  I’d tell him right up front to go find another punching bag and leave me the ****
  alone.
  Oh and just for the record, there ARE guys who cannot take responsibility for ANYTHING that is wrong in their life, so they just HAVE TO pin it on the lil woman…
  Is he really worth your time, eh??????
  
  - written 4 months ago – voted for by . . ., michele_lee_perry

• (1 vote) Has anyone here gotten out of an abusive relationship?
  

  [quote Anonymous]also it might help to get some counselling and things, after this, if you’ve been dealing with abuse for a while. Depends on the type of abuse aswell[/quote]
  
  Absolutely.
  A man can beat the **** out of you without laying a finger on you.
  Mental abuse is still ABUSE–in a BIG way.
  And sometimes the damages can be alot worse.
  
  Yes, I’ve been in a couple of abusive relationships…Mental and Physical.
  And it took every ounce of strength to turn and walk away.
  But, by walking away and not looking back, I am a survivor.
  
  I won’t turn this into a “Male Bashing” session, because I know from experience that ALL men are NOT bad. Just as all women are NOT bad.
  But…the ones who are…REALLY are, aren’t they?
  
  Take ahold of your life. You own it.
  If you are abused, neglected, or terribly disrespected–please understand that you WILL find someone who WILL love and respect you just as you deserve.
  
  - written 4 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by . . .

• (1 vote) Merry Christmas all you users on help dot com..
  

  Aw..You’re anon…
  But nonetheless…You are loved in return.
  And if I ever find out who you are, I’m gonna sneak up on you
  and deliver a rib cracking HUG…:D
  Peace and LOVE….always….Cara
  
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by A.O.E.N

• (1 vote) I got a hamster a week ago.
  

  Hi Amy!
  I’ve had soooo many hamsters in my life…lol…
  Aren’t they great and UBER cute!!???
  And all of my hamsters chewed on the cage…and it was definitely LOUD…It would wake me up in the middle of the night.
  And as for your alarm?? Don’t stop using it just because you have a hamster in the room…Let HIM get used to YOUR schedule, ok??? He’ll be fine.
  Just have alot of fun with your lil babe…I used to walk around with mine on my shoulder. :D My last one’s name was….POOKIE….LOL
  Good luck1!!! Cara
  
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by mindhealer

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• Feeling a little down .
  

  Oh I wish that there was a way to take pain away from friends…
  Because if there was, I’d take yours.
  You do so much to try to help people..on this site and in this world.
  I, personally, am very proud to have you among my friends here on the site.
  Thank You, Sherlockian…:)
  Just remember…this too shall pass…
  And you’ll be home where you belong with your sweet wife again.
  I wish you two allll the best when your return…You both deserve it!
  Sending love and HOPE, Cara
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

• when you ask a woman out for dinner and she reply’s with, i am going through things right now, ill have to pass.
  

  Hey, Joe…(lol…Jimmy Hendrix :) )
  
  
  [quote BIG AL ONE.]I would take it as a red flag.
  Some people are incapable of upgrading to a better person.[/quote]
  
  I believe that Big Al was just telling you to take it as a warning from her.
  AND I believe that he was also saying that YOU are the better person.
  That she just isn’t able to take on a better person…you….
  OK????
  Wow, take it easy Joe…really….Cara
  (If you knew Big Al at ALL, you’d realize that he would never say anythng to
  put someone down like that…:/
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• Docteur Ralph’s fourth annual Superbowl poll
  

  [quote Docteur Ralph]If not for that crazy power outage the Ravens would have stomped the 49ers. They were killing the 49ers and then after the 34 minute delay suddenly the tide changed and San Fran scored 17 unanswered points and it became a real game. Ray Lewis really was invisible in the game but the Ravens didn’t even need him. It was a great game, everyone was on the edge of their seats until the final play![/quote]
  
  Yeah!!! What the Doc said there….:D
  (Happy Camper..:oD)
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

• Docteur Ralph’s fourth annual Superbowl poll
  

  Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
  Hhooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!! :d
  My sweet ravens are the champs!!!!!
  But i knew that they would be…..:)
  But the 49s really did kick tushie though…
  Love them both…
  Be happy, ravens fans!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago

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  hahaha…now THIS is bizarre….old **** Nick….:DD
  
  oops…sorry BA…off topic hugely…:/
  Just wanted to see what would happen…
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago

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