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Well, if she’s happy with him…

You can’t help who you love or just have feelings for; I’m experiencing this the hard way. Be a sister and let them be happy together… even if it hurts. Support your sister, and be proud that you have the power - if that boy ever hurts your sis - to get revenge on him.

I would never push him to break-up with her. What goes on between them, well… I’d rather let them go on with it.

I mean, I think he loves her… but, I’m not sure. They almost never see one another. She lives in Maryland and we live in Pennsylvania; she used to stop by all the time, but I guess things have been slow.

Mm… I wouldn’t go with ‘ignoring her’. If she’s a friend, that could hurt her.

Honestly, you can’t make someone love you. It’s sad, but true. I love a boy, but he’ll never feel the same back for me. However, that’s seriously just life - you win some and you lose some.

Yet, there is a chance. Be patient; patience is key. If you continue to hang with her, be nice to her, be there for her, etc, than she may come back to you. Yet, there is no remedy that is a surefire way.

I hope this helps.

When I was dating my ex, we only got to see one another on the weekends. And every time we saw each other, despite that it was hard to say good-bye, we were happier and more grateful to see one another.

But Snar is very right; the distance should not matter between you two. Just be happy when you do get to see him. :]

*rolls on the ground laughing*

That’s freaking amazing! Bravo! I applaud you. :D

I live in Pitt. :]

LEAH: Amazingly, some places are still quaint and fair - the society as a whole isn’t poisoned. It just depends on where you live.

Because we’re beginning to live in a ridiculous society which feeds off of stereotypes… anything to make themselves feel better.

Ignore them. Blonde hair is absolutely gorgeous - they’re jealous. :]

Ohh, I’m with you; you’re not alone.

I usually write to myself… well, not even to any one - I just write. I write down everything that’s bothering me in senseless, babbling thoughts that only I can understand. Then, I focus on things that make me happy, and things that I enjoy doing.

That’s just one way you could try and cheer yourself up.

Thank-you. :D

I also put the wrong ‘too’ - my bad. xD

I can’t get out in the world… I’m 15. And if you read my other post, I can never leave the house. My mom is never home and I have to watch my little brother.

I actually try to excersize my passions, really. Kept to a house, I am doing a few projects with the only things I’m good at - writing and drawing.

However, I’ve received good news today. Things won’t get better for me immediately, but… let’s just hope for the best. Soon, my mother won’t have so many jobs and I’ll be able to do things that I like more often.

Thank-you. :]

Hold your head high and ignore them.

I went through them, and I still go through them - however, I fell into a long period of depression, and I did not have friends that were there for me. Because I let those thoughts tear me down, they ripped me apart and I am like this permenantly.

Keep telling yourself, ‘it isn’t true’. You may not stop yourself from getting them, however, the power of them will fade and hopefully, they will slip from existence. Just don’t listen to them, and don’t drag yourself into a depression - then they may not go away.

You have to make yourself be strong to scare them away. I hope this has helped you in some way.

Why do you believe that she’ll never love you back?