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• Im thinking of leaving my partner of 5 years.
  

  Sorry my dear, that last bit should read : You deserve nothing but the best from your partner. :)
  
  God Bless
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• Im thinking of leaving my partner of 5 years.
  

  Sit & talk with him, find out when & why all the hostility started because at the best of times a relationship can be real uneasy to say the least, due to both parties holding issues in & letting them fester to the point at where yours seems to be. If you both find out that it’s just because your not happy with each other anymore then move on with both your lives & don’t waste time trying to address something that’s past it’s season. You nothing but the best from your partner.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• what should I do?
  

  Hey D, well I think the worst thing in life is not letting people in your life know how important they are to you. Yes of course it will hurt if he doesn’t recieve your affections as you would like, but I promise you it only hurts for a little while and that pain really is one that will FREE you from your past & give you room to move on with the future. So just go ahead & let him know so you can be free to live the best of your ability whatever the outcome may be. :)
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• I would like some advise My sister who is 4 years older than I am we are both over 30.
  

  Well because she is your sister, the issue of kicking her out should be a last resort if all other avenues fail. If talking to her yourself does not change anything then ask other family members or close friends of both of you to help in the situation, sort of like an ‘intervention’. Before you do so have ways to help her solve her problem on hand, do your homework & find rehabs in your area, counseling options & or practioners. If your a member of a Church or live close to one then they would be more than willing to help with all these issues. There is always a way, because drug users aren’t taking them for the fun of it, no matter what anyone says. It’s just that they have chosen the worst outlet to be rid of some underlying pain in their lives & before they can stop the bad & devasting habit they first have to come to terms with the root of the issue. I wish you the best & will pray for you & your sister at this time :)
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

• So i dated this guy in college for a year..i broke
  

  This has nothing to do with whether this ex of yours is worth another chance etc, this is really the issue of you not letting go of the past because you have blamed yourself for what happened. Just remember that what happened to you in the past lit the way for the choices you made to get you to where you find yourself to where you are today & that’s with a great guy who I assume has not cheated on you.
  Remember also the saying ‘you never know a good thing till it’s gone’ & in your case he didn’t until he ran into you & saw how successful you are right now & how you have continued to be your fabulous self which I would say is also due to the loving that your present man is showering you with. Honey there is a reason that they call it the PAST & the thing is yours with this guy even though you might have had some good times with him, ended when he decided you weren’t what he wanted anymore. Look at your past & just be thankful you didn’t stick around being disrespected like that, because I believe you wouldn’t be as successful as you are right now in every aspect of your life :)
  CONTINUE TO BE BLESSED
  - written 2 years, 7 months ago

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