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my exboyfriend always climax to early so i would always bring him to that point then change and do sumthin else to him or stop and he would bring me to the point, always stopping before u get the full climax, it can keep u going 4ages and is exciting to and makes it more intense wen u do let each other climax!

talk to her not her friends about this, if shes shy ur probly not helping by talking to other people about it! alot of girls like to keep there sex lifes private, dont pressure her in2 nethin n make sure its wot she wants 2

what your father did to u is wrong and in no way your fault, although this may not be the best time to explain it all to your mother you do need to explain it! u need help and suport, this is not something u should feel u have to deal with ur self and u have nothing to be ashamed of! hold ur head high (i no it must be hard) and dont let this become who u are, try to move forward! im sorry for your loss and all that has happened, i realy hope you find the help u need xx

hey, i was 15when i first got with boyfriend, we spent alot of time together and were very close, i asked my mum if i could stay over at his almost every weekend but she kept saying no to me! in the end i gave up 4a few weeks then decided to sit down with her n talk about properly with her, she appreciated my maturity and i explained that not staying there didnt stop the inevitable from happening it just meant that i would be safer when it did! she respected me for talking properly with her and explaining my feelings and did let me stay there! but i had to earn her trust and keep it! u need to show ur mum ur mature enough for this step, and when she says no accept it like an adult, she will soon see your grown up enough for this kind of situation! its just mothers intution to protect from any possible endangerment! x

maybe he is just feeling insecure as things are moving quiikly and he is a little scared or even intimidated that you are coping with the changes easier than he is! a previous boyfriend and i had this problem, it stemed from bad relationships he had in the past in which he was cheated on! it took a long time but we did build a trust relationship together he was just scared of loosing me like he had before! his paranoya wasnt they reason we split i would just like to add!!

thankyou for your replies you are right as much as i love him i think it is time to call it a day. unfortunatly the option of not seeing him at all for a few weeks would not work as he still has to come and see his daughter! he still has got alot of growing up to do and neither of us were realy ready for the responsibility a child brings and i seem to have coped alot better than him! i still have a good social life and am not short of male attention so i do know i could meet some one new, i just dont see myself with anyone else as he is my only ever boyfriend! we got together when i was 15!

i suposed i dont have to rule out the posibility of a reconsiliation but i do need to stop waiting for him 2 change when i dont no if he ever will!

but for now he is in the process of moving out and we are no longer a couple, which sometimes makes me happy and sometimes doesnt, i just miss having someone close to me!

gues i just need someone to tell me im doing the right thing!! xxx