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• Everything keeps going wrong. posted (2 years, 2 months) ago
  Lately everything has been completely falling apart. I’m pregnant and I don’t know whe…

• Sickness came back! posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I felt sick this morning and I got sick a little (threw up) but I felt better after a bit, with tw…

• I feel sick. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I feel really nauseous but I really don’t have a reason to feel this way, it’s been hap…

• So tired. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I’m so very tired and I haven’t gotten quality sleep for two nights. The first night I…

• I’m very upset and frustrated. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I’m throwing this party and a lot of my family and friends are going to be there and my boyfriend…

• Dissapointed! posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  SO I’ve been playing Final Fantasy 8 on PsX, it’s like my favorite game and I’m …

• I’m not happy. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I should be, everything is going really well right now. I don’t know what it is, I’m j…

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• I recently got into drama with my group of friends.
  

  You should find help, of course your friends are going to withdraw from you because you have some problems that you couldn’t kept hidden from them. It’s hard to see your own actions from another person’s view, but sometimes you have to talk to people and just be completely honest. They might not always come around but you’ll feel a lot of weight come off your shoulders, lying to everyone around you daily is extremely harmful, both to yourself and the relationships you have with your friends and the people you’re lying to. Alcoholism is a very real disease and it is a very serious one, it sounds like you’re trying to reach out for help, maybe your friends don’t know how you’re feeling, they can only assume things from your actions. You need to talk to someone, your parents, a school counselor or even your best friend. You’re not worthless, and you don’t need other people to validate who you are, once high school is over you won’t even see most of these people ever again and if you do, the stuff that happened it high school is usually forgotten or maybe just laughed about. I know it seems like the world right now but I promise you there is so much more out there for you. Being yourself is always going to be better than trying to be something you’re not, you might get popular and have women and friends but they don’t really know you or care about the real you because the real you is hidden in this person you’ve created. Don’t lose yourself because you’re awesome and you deserve to be liked and cared for because of who you are.
  - written 2 days, 12 hours ago

• OMG…my new boyfriend wants to help my ex boyfriend get over me breaking up with him.
  

  I agree with the previous post, that you need to tell your mom about your ex’s behavior because it sounds like he is stepping over the line into obsessive and is clearly not just going to leave you alone (getting your new number from your cousin when it’s obvious you didn’t want him to have it is not a good sign). I also think that you need to tell your current boyfriend to stay out of it, bringing ex’s into a new relationship is not usually a good thing, it’s drama and complication that is completely unnecessary in a new relationship when you’re just trying to get to know someone and see if they’re the right person for you. And honestly if I had a boyfriend who was trying to tell some guy off for me or get involved in the situation trying to take control over it, I would think he was a jerk who might try to control me later if I wasn’t doing what he wanted. Like I said, it’s a red flag. He might think he’s trying to help but he is just going to make your ex angry and hurt, which could lead to worse things than him calling you over and over. It sounds like there are some pretty intense feelings from everyone involved and you might want to take a step back from the whole situation because it’s just drama and stress you don’t need.
  - written 2 days, 13 hours ago

• I recently got into drama with my group of friends.
  

  What happened to cause this? There must have been a catalyst to make them start treating you in this way?
  - written 2 days, 13 hours ago

• OMG…my new boyfriend wants to help my ex boyfriend get over me breaking up with him.
  

  Block your exes number or if you can’t do that you need to make it extremely clear to him that it’s over and nothing is going to change that. You need to be harsh even, mean, it can be really hard but it’s better than leaving him with hope. He needs to get over you and move on, but start with just leaving you alone! It is weird that your new boyfriend is getting involved like that, it could be a red flag or it could mean that he just really wants your ex out of the picture so that you two can focus on each other. It sounds like your ex just really wants to be with you and thinks that he still has a shot, the best thing to do is tell him exactly how you’re feeling and that he needs to leave you alone or you’re going to like get authorities involved (you don’t want him to turn into a stalker or hurt you in any way) and that should scare him away and ultimately help him.
  - written 2 days, 13 hours ago

• Ive just been so unhappy with all aspects of my life.
  

  I know it seems like you’re completely alone, but really most people feel the same way at least once but usually tons of times in their lives. Connecting with others can be really hard, especially when you’re in high school or college or any social group setting like that. Everyone is insecure, all those kids with friends that seem so happy? I guarantee they all think crap of themselves, you just can’t see it on the surface. So what can you do? It’s easy to say that you need to try harder, branch out and talk to everyone you can until someone talks back. It’s a good idea and maybe it’ll work. But what you really need to do is face yourself, love yourself and others will follow. You’re parents aren’t always going to understand you or get along with you, if they did it would be hard to leave them when you have to go out into the world on your own. Other people aren’t everything, I mean honestly most people really aren’t that great and you should never measure your own greatness by how many friends you have because trust me, you are great all on your own. Just know that everyone has feelings that are deep and as pained as your own, they might seem tough on the outside but on the inside we’re all goop. Just remember that you’re awesome and if they aren’t interested in being your friend it’s completely their loss and the girl that you meet when you meet her, will completely adore you.
  - written 1 month, 3 weeks ago

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